Alrighty, so here's the background.
Me: I'm 23 and new to the whole PU A idea. Everything I've done up until now has been a natural game and I've been fairly successful, but definitely not successful enough. I'm young, fairly good looking, have a degree and a great job, so my personal life is well covered off. I read the Game on advice from a friend of mine, and have been getting into being a PU A for the last month (on and off between travelling for work). Just recently been reading more material (last week or so)
So I moved to a new city about 3 weeks ago. Just about 2 weeks ago, I went out on town with some coworker buddies of mine and it was one of those unreal nights. Made out with a girl before I got into the club, chatted up several different sets with a buddy of mine winging with me. Switched to the next club and same thing. Was able to dance with different sets and had a H B 8.5 dancing with me (been working game on her since and have that lined up for when we're back in the same city). Just 30 minutes later, I was able to land a H B 10. Played basically a natural game on her for an hour or so, and we ended up walking back to my place. I was able to fully close with her, and we cuddled and talked for the rest of the night. She's a 21 year old student, and very cool. During talking, I found out that she has only had sex in friends with benefits situations, never with an actual boyfriend, and apparently I was her first one night stand (I'm fairly certain that she wasn't lying on this point, as she hadn't even cuddled with a guy after having sex, the previous two FW Bs would push her away). She found out earlier that week that the guy she was f*ck buddies with for the last year is now actively looking for a girlfriend and isn't interested in her. She's pretty hurt about it, because she's developed feelings for him (the idiot introduced her to his parents even!). I should mention that throughout this, I was encouraging her and building her up. I hadn't intended to play game on her, and I wanted to treat her nicely. As Mystery says, it should be a positive experience for both people! She left my place in the morning to get to a very early interview for a job (she had been worried about it the entire night). Both of us had a bit to drink and were slightly drunk when we closed.
So, after that, it's been text game. I texted her that morning and asked how the interview went, mentioned that I'd had a nap, and felt completely wiped out. She responded that it went well and we texted back and forth a bit. I called her that night to ask her out to dinner, and she told me that she wouldn't be able to as she was trying to get over this guy..."wouldn't be fair to you if I did this" etc. I told her that was fair enough, told her that she deserved a lot more, and spoke some encouraging words into her life. She started to cry a bit, said dammit, now you've made me cry, and then I offered her all the best.
*More to follow*