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    Default Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Alrighty, so here's the background.

    Me: I'm 23 and new to the whole PU A idea. Everything I've done up until now has been a natural game and I've been fairly successful, but definitely not successful enough. I'm young, fairly good looking, have a degree and a great job, so my personal life is well covered off. I read the Game on advice from a friend of mine, and have been getting into being a PU A for the last month (on and off between travelling for work). Just recently been reading more material (last week or so)

    The Story:
    So I moved to a new city about 3 weeks ago. Just about 2 weeks ago, I went out on town with some coworker buddies of mine and it was one of those unreal nights. Made out with a girl before I got into the club, chatted up several different sets with a buddy of mine winging with me. Switched to the next club and same thing. Was able to dance with different sets and had a H B 8.5 dancing with me (been working game on her since and have that lined up for when we're back in the same city). Just 30 minutes later, I was able to land a H B 10. Played basically a natural game on her for an hour or so, and we ended up walking back to my place. I was able to fully close with her, and we cuddled and talked for the rest of the night. She's a 21 year old student, and very cool. During talking, I found out that she has only had sex in friends with benefits situations, never with an actual boyfriend, and apparently I was her first one night stand (I'm fairly certain that she wasn't lying on this point, as she hadn't even cuddled with a guy after having sex, the previous two FW Bs would push her away). She found out earlier that week that the guy she was f*ck buddies with for the last year is now actively looking for a girlfriend and isn't interested in her. She's pretty hurt about it, because she's developed feelings for him (the idiot introduced her to his parents even!). I should mention that throughout this, I was encouraging her and building her up. I hadn't intended to play game on her, and I wanted to treat her nicely. As Mystery says, it should be a positive experience for both people! She left my place in the morning to get to a very early interview for a job (she had been worried about it the entire night). Both of us had a bit to drink and were slightly drunk when we closed.

    So, after that, it's been text game. I texted her that morning and asked how the interview went, mentioned that I'd had a nap, and felt completely wiped out. She responded that it went well and we texted back and forth a bit. I called her that night to ask her out to dinner, and she told me that she wouldn't be able to as she was trying to get over this guy..."wouldn't be fair to you if I did this" etc. I told her that was fair enough, told her that she deserved a lot more, and spoke some encouraging words into her life. She started to cry a bit, said dammit, now you've made me cry, and then I offered her all the best.

    *More to follow*

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    I was planning on leaving it at that and didn't contact her until 4 days later by text (whoops I know!) From here on in, it's been text game.
    Me: Hey sorry I've been really swamped this week. Whatever happened with that interview?

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Her: Swamped ... ? Awww . And it went well apparently, got the volunteer thingy anyways now I just have to find out what I have to do for it. How are you?


    more to follow (This isn't allowing me to post the entire thing because apparently: You are only allowed to post URLs to other sites after you have made 15 posts or more....except there isn't a url here...weird glitch???(

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Me: Congratulations!! Just been working like crazy. Home alone and unpacking boxes gets old really quick haha.
    Her: Lol thanks...seeing as I went to it half asleep still unpacking? Get on it!
    Me: Maybe if I had some help:P trying to self motivate can be a pain
    Her: Be like a puppy, motivate self with food
    Me: A puppy? Puppies tend not to train themselves!
    Her: True...still food is fantastic so I would use that
    Me: Alrighty then food it is. I'll have to come up with some kinda system. How do you do it?
    Her: I'm a woman...chocolate. But right now, its advil motivating me. Played squash for the first time and I can't move a muscle!
    Me: You opened a door for a massage, but that would be way to forward. Too bad coz I give a mean massage! :P
    Her: Lol well ill just suck it up then
    Me: Ice and wine may also help you are a wine fan right?
    Her: I can't drink wine I won't be able to do work
    At which point my phone died and I was hanging with some friends
    I texted her a couple days later (the Friday)and we had some back and forth, she asked what I was up to etc. That weekend she was away for the holidays (Canadian thanksgiving).
    After the weekend, I left for a business trip. I texted her when my truck got a flat.
    Me: So, nursing a turkey hangover? I am, while I wait for a mechanic haha. ten mins out of town on my work trip and 2 flat tires. Blazing start :P
    Her: Oh wow! That's impressive :P and yes I'm still in a turkey come. A human should not be able to consume that much food in a week lol.
    Her(immediately): * coma
    Me: Man alive, tell me about it lol. Total glutton. Nice catch :P Finally left town. Blazing Saddles, take 2, and action. Except for the stuck in traffic part. FML
    Her: Sometimes I have no idea what you are saying but I do know that traffic sucks lol
    Me: Haha, I have epic T9 and an even more epic sense of humour (pathetic can replace epic lol). translation: " food is bad, I feel like a glutton (one who consumes too much food), subtlte joke referencing your freudian slip (because turkeys and coming is just too weird to mock lol), and a reference to the cowboy film Blazin Saddles " Epic fail in general :P
    And I still haven't moved on this damn 401. Bloody hell hahaha! (401 being a highway)
    Her: Well a true freudian slip would be if I misspelled it in the actual way to imply what you have implied. I am also aware what a glutton is never seen that movie - so really your entire text went right over my head, though your wit attempt was a valiant one.
    Me: thank you kindly miss! Sometimes ya just can't win em. If at first...try try again. Sooner or later you'll break and sink to the depths of my humour
    Her: hmmmm. Though I am appreciative of original humour it helps if I know what certain things are
    Me: Pfff, we'll just have to educate you then or maybe I can just learn how to be funny...pigs may fly too!
    Her: Lol when that day happens keep me informed! And I never said you weren't humorous...just confusing
    Me: Confusing eh? That's interesting: just in my humour? Ps, damn this drive is beautiful in the fall!
    Her: I knowwwwww I was trying to take pictures while driving how far out are u?
    Me: (I had already snapped a picture so I sent it to her) My favourite season
    Just past ( insert town name), headed to ( insert city name). Should be a nice break from the office!
    Her: Oh nice!!! And this colours are amazing!
    Me: Ontario is way prettier than people make it out to be. In (insert city name) now. It's hazy here and seems almost foggy. Is that smog or stubble?
    Her: Stubble? Is that not what grows on a mans face? Lol
    Me: Lol: and you call yourself a farm girl?!? :P stubble is what farmers burn in the fall to clear their fiefs haha. Prairie boy-1, Ontario girl-0.
    Her: I grow vegetables and if we burn our fields peoples houses would catch fire!
    Me: Fair enough :P probably best to avoid that little thing! So apparently I'm right beside wasaga beach. Finally here after 6 hours!
    Her: Wasaga beach is awesome! Though it might be kinda cold right now for swimming...
    Me: Somehow I don't think I'll have too much time for swimming lol. It'll be straight work till I get home next Friday. How's school for you by the way? Midterms?
    I didn't get a reply. It's been one week since, and I've been very busy with work in a place with next to no service. Finally today, I was out near the lake and snapped a picture of sunset. I sent it to her saying" Moments like these when I love my job"
    She responded immediately and asked: Where are you?
    I had no service and wasn't able to reply until late (4 hours later)
    I said: about halfway between xx and yy, near the zz on lake huron. Terrible service here :P
    Her: Lol I can imagine! But looks beautiful


    That just an hour ago.

    Anyhow, apologies for the super long post! I have no clue how to write all the details for you guys yet. Just learning the site. I should note that the texting was done before I had read about texting game (which I just started covering today). I'm going to be back home in 3 days (in time for Friday afternoon). My questions are: a) is this salvageable, or should I be throwing in the towel, b) what things are glaring errors that I could improve on, and c) what should be my course of action from here on??

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Sorry for the multiple posts? I have no clue why it was saying I was trying to post a url!!

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Go for the girl! If it were me, I'd call her on the phone. Texting can be lame as she can't hear your humor, confidence and tone. Also, remember, you may be developing one-itis! Getting the F-close was cool, but she has issues with her other boy friends and may actually be seeing them still. Go out, have a great time, meet some more women. Freeze her out for a while, if she calls, great, if not, move along. You're young and handsome, got good game, you know what you are doing and seem a natural at the PUA game.
    SMILE , and Don't care.

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    Default Re: Closed once...now what do I do to get her back?

    Thanks for the reply. If I were a betting man, I'd say there would be decent odds that she's still probably seeing the other dudes. To me it seems like that's her pattern, her MO, and with it ingrained in her this way, it's probably one of the only ways she knows how to operate.

    When freezing her out via text (which I do concur is lame...a tool sometimes, but definitely not my preference), I haven't gotten any replies. My intent is to try one of the text/call techniques when I get back home on Friday, see if I can get her out somehow. If so, then I'm in business, if not, then that's that, no biggy. I have been getting out there and have a few other ladies hooked and on the go, so for me this is more of a test of my game and somewhat of an experiment.

    Any tips on giving her a call? I was planning on flipping her a random text, and then calling as soon as she texted back, try some kind of an opener, get her laughing, and then shout out something casual, like having a glass of wine or maybe spontaneous like jumping out to the lakeside.

    Anyhow, cheers mates, look forward to talking game on here, and improving my own! If somethings good, then it can always become great!


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