Hi to all you PUA on here. First time post but read plenty, some incrediby useful stuff here.
Now I have a huge problem, tried dealing with it on my own but hey theres strength in numbers so im really looking for some strong advice. Here goes>>>
Theres a girl that I have worked with for the past few years, during this time we have become close. Helps that we have alot in common and usually like the same things. We were both in relationships until she broke up with her boyfriend then i split with my gf. So its ony in recent months we've both been single.
This is how it goes: she has no problem with being around me, conversation never feels fake, its all natural. She tells me what shes doing most of the time, always laughs and jokes around me (although dont be too fooled cause shes a very jolly person) Also she doesnt have a problem with me touching her etc. I mean I often go and grab/hold her hand when i want her to do/come see something and she never has a probem. If were messing around i'll tickle her and she plays along. Her mom works at the same place, in a different department tho and ive got to know her too, i needed to thank her mum for something and she had no problem giving me her moms number.
Now for the negative lol. This is where im confused as fook. I have caught this girl telling lies about stuff and me never being afraid to say whats on my mind have confronted her about them. Most of the time they were only little lies, nothing major but we fall out over them, then make up. Recently shes lied again and ofcourse i confront her and we go over the same pattern. Last time i laid into her about telling lies and honesty, she says its down to her ex that shes like this, always having to lie cause she feels she has to justify herself. She only seems to behave like this round me, strange!!!
I kno we have alot of fun working together and have a hell of alot in common but im very concerned with these lies and stories she makes up. Id like to kno if u guys think she is being genuine with her insecurity or shes just being a bitch???. I have not tried to escalte anything as of yet cause of these concerns. I do kno this girl is very hard to get anything with a deep connection.
So heres the million dolar question id really appreciate help with dudes>>>
Does this girl like me and should i go for it???????