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    Default Need help with cute Japanese girl I met

    I was out In Beijing last Friday and I was in a bar that was a bit busy but really dull. The dance floor was full of guys and not many women on it. I saw a table that almost empty with a few girls sitting at it. I'll try anything once and I had the idea of jumping on the table with a few friends and dancing. It worked surprisingly well and girls just joined us when we opened. I got with a very cute Japanese girl (8). Before I could get too far her friend wanted to leave. My mate who was winging her said he was getting alot of resistence from her. Anyway before she left I got her number and made she had mine on her phone. She texted me an hour later and said she'd had a great time and we texted a small bit.

    Next I texted her last night (Sunday) and things were going really well. I was stearing the conversation towards a date and I find that taking a girl for ice cream works well and it isn't the most expensive thing either and we can go for a walk in the park which is nice. She said that her favourite flavour was green tea. I have heard of it but acted surprised to hear of it. She said that she'll show me it and I need to try it. Next I replied

    "I'll try anything once. Tuesday or Wednesday?"

    Again giving the girl an option of days makes her more likely to agree to one. She never got back to me. Her English isn't the best so could it be that she doesn't understand. Or is it more likely that I came on too strong? Is it retrievable, do I go back a few steps and start again or is it lost. Any advice or criticism no matter how harsh is welcome.
    Last edited by Goulie; 10-24-2011 at 06:01 AM.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute Japanese girl I met

    Really doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.

    I would wait a few days after and give it another shot, worst she can do is ignore ya again. Tropics posted a great bank robery opener, but it may not work if her english sux.

    Just send her something funny and light
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    Default Re: Need help with cute Japanese girl I met

    Time constraints? Are both of you only in bejing for a short time?

    Japanese all know basic English. She would know or be able to easily figure out what you mean from that text. They all have dictionaries built into their phones. Avoid idioms if her English is not that good. If there's something you wanna say IN Japanese, I can help you out with that, you just have to copy and paste. But you don't wanna pretend you're proficient, just something to show her your interested perhaps. Say you learned it from another Japanese you met yesterday or whatever. Perhaps the jealousy will set in.

    As far as what exactly to text her, I can't say. Just be playful and fun. An invitation that sounds like a suggestion is often more successful for me. "let's..." they use a lot. "let's enjoy some ice cream on Wednesday! I feel like I have to try that matcha flavor you mentioned before." or whatever.

    If this progresses at all, post again and I'll give you any advice I've got.

    Good luck!
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    Default Re: Need help with cute Japanese girl I met

    Hi guys thanks for your help. She text me Monday night and sounded like she was worried that she couldn't go Tuesday or Wednesday because she has a part timer job. I got the impression she thought I would be angry she couldn't go. I basically said no bother we could organise something for another time. I don't want to sound needy and I've alot of other stuff to do anyway. Finished after some texting and said I'd get onto her. Things going good she's into me

    Here's were it gets weird. She sent me two blank texts tonight within 15 mins of each other. I didn't notice the first as I was on the subway and had earphones in listening to music. I text and ask if everythings alright with her. She acts confused and doesn't seem to understand "a blank text" and she goes on about her sending a blank email. But I manage to bring her round. I'm in between texts now. I think she did the whole thing just to talk. She's into me and/or mental. Will let ye know how I get on.
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    Default Re: Need help with cute Japanese girl I met

    Japanese are super apologetic, so although it may seem like she was afraid to tell you she couldn't go, it was probably just general politeness.

    As far as the blank text, I've received loads of misdirected texts and phone calls that girls don't realize they're making to me at the time. It's unbelievably common. So don't write her off as a psycho yet. She may just be that cell phone inept.

    Finally, her confusion about the conversation you mentioned can be attributed to you calling what she sent "blank texts". If her English is not great, she wouldn't have a clue what that meant. Japanese say "mail" or "email" for all texts. Never the word texts. Simply not in their vernacular. Sometimes you hear SMS, too.

    Good luck!
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