Re: I would appreciate some suggestions for improvement
What you are referring to is called the "aware" state. Getting butterflies in your stomach and your mind searching for things to say. That state puts a barrier in your head in turn puts itself in between you and the girl you are talking to.
Originally Posted by Flight5
The big deal with this "aware" or nervous state is that if you let it be in control and you approach like you are nervous and very aware, and you act like the girl is super important it will give off the impression that you don't surround yourself with beautiful women.
To combat this "aware" state, you must not take her shit and hit with with some negs and you will seem like you don't have this state change. (even though everyone does)
You CAN'T eliminate this state, but you CAN hide it.
If you hide it and act like you don't get into this state with the girl you are gaming and you neg. her in a fun way, you will seem "hard to get" and different. She will then work to make you like all the rest of the AFC guys that try to talk to her and make the "aware" state obvious.
She will chase after you. This is actually the biggest psychological switch in girls brains.
You have to work to make a girl get you. then you seem different to them.
There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.
Be the flame, not the moth.