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    joker5811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I would appreciate some suggestions for improvement

    one thing i like to do is just do the most screwed up thing you can do. like i at one point would never just walk up to a girl and make fun of her in a playful way but now i see that it gets them having fun so i always go up to girls who are playing pool for example and misses the shot and give them a high five for sucking.

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    Default Re: I would appreciate some suggestions for improvement

    You need to work on some fallback things to say once you're in the set. Cold reading works wonders on girls

    Tropics uses The rings routine (discussing what it means to wear the rings on different fingers) or the cube game - hey my buddy taught me this neat excercise I bet I can tell a lot about your personality ...-

    If you're getting past the opening youve jumped the biggest hurdle. I would suggest you start reading a few of the books on game out there that go into some of these routines in depth

    I posted my book list here - http://www.puaforums.com/recommended...-list-you.html - with comments from tropics too if you want our take on where to start
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    Default Re: I would appreciate some suggestions for improvement

    Quote Originally Posted by Flight5 View Post
    Its good i found this.
    I have a question for, In The Tropics, Xiskcub and Baron
    So is it safe to say that on the approach and on to the opener, if i were to be angsty, or were to have any kind of fear of rejection whatsoever(whether i show it or not) the girls will likely send me the go away vibe?
    With respect to tropics saying, my feedback is: Ok i was at the mall with my brother atleast a halph an hour ago, we were ther for a while and i opened 7 different sets... -1 because she blew me off. But the others were interested from opening (yes i was feelin some fear) and i could practically see them losing interest within minutes ( i started to feel the vibe) so i closed and left. This has been happening alot now.
    So i'll go off my hunch that its true.
    But then what should i do about it. How do i push past those inner things.
    My first thought is to just keep at it the approach and opening.
    Any advice?
    What you are referring to is called the "aware" state. Getting butterflies in your stomach and your mind searching for things to say. That state puts a barrier in your head in turn puts itself in between you and the girl you are talking to.

    The big deal with this "aware" or nervous state is that if you let it be in control and you approach like you are nervous and very aware, and you act like the girl is super important it will give off the impression that you don't surround yourself with beautiful women.

    To combat this "aware" state, you must not take her shit and hit with with some negs and you will seem like you don't have this state change. (even though everyone does)

    You CAN'T eliminate this state, but you CAN hide it.

    If you hide it and act like you don't get into this state with the girl you are gaming and you neg. her in a fun way, you will seem "hard to get" and different. She will then work to make you like all the rest of the AFC guys that try to talk to her and make the "aware" state obvious.

    She will chase after you. This is actually the biggest psychological switch in girls brains.

    You have to work to make a girl get you. then you seem different to them.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

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