it seems to me that the only thing that keeps a relationship going is ATTRACTION. once that feeling is no longer there, the relationship breaks. think about it. you don't need to do anything to receive the love of a mom or dad, or family member or the love of God, for those that believe in him. These loves are already given to us. However to get the love of a women, you must qualify yourself. it also seems to me like everything is a fucking game. (playing hard to get, making yourself look as VALUABLE as possible, you can't be sweet with girls, no romance, be aloof, insincere with your emotions) if you pull the fishing rod, the fish swims away. I wish i can believe that there is a girl out there that isn't attracted to the man that is hard to get for her, but rather the one that cares for her. to be honest, i wish the day came where instead of me getting all the girls whenever my friends and I are out to a club or whatever, i wish i was the one that was rejected, and one of my super nice friends got the girl. I'm dying to meet a girl that pours her heart out to me and I can do the same for her, and its no longer about something that catches your eye and you want so badly, but something that is given to you already but you have to work hard to keep it.