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    spaceisthefuture is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Help Overcoming Approach Anxiety

    Hi guys!
    I am a popular guy, college student. I am fun, good looking and cool lol. I notice attractive women looking at me all the time when i go out. But i just never approach them. I know i need to change but im really struggling. For example today i went to the bank. As i walked in i saw two girls, one of them was pretty attractive. I went past to counter to fill out deposit slip. I decide to turn around and i see that same girl looking right at me and then my eyes. She seemed suprised i had turned around at that second. I did nothing, she left while i was talking to teller. This happens to me alot. I read alot of self help books and work on this alot but for some reason when it comes to attractive women i freeze up. im ready to change. Any advice at all for me? Please?
    Thanks guys i really appreciate it.

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    ph0bolus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help Overcoming Approach Anxiety

    In the same boat as you my friend...It's easier for me if they start the convo first, I know that's not how it's supposed to be, but trying hard to rectify it!
    Last edited by ph0bolus; 10-29-2011 at 09:36 AM.

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    Default Re: Need Help Overcoming Approach Anxiety

    Just by reading this i found out that i have it too so im not just stuck on fear of rejection. I have approach anxiety too. Damn, looks like i have to do.

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    Default Re: Need Help Overcoming Approach Anxiety

    When you make eye contact smile and be the last one to break the eye contact. That way approaching will not seem so akward because she already feels a connection to you. You can through in a wave or a wink or whatever you like and when you approach, you can open with something like "i couldnt help but notice you staring at me earlier" and shell try to prove to you she wasnt


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