So I'm new to the forum but not new to the game. Senior in college and I've had some crazy success recently as I've gotten pretty good at opening convos and had some crazy success physically. I've always had difficulty with maintaining relationships and texting so it's what I'm working on now. Regardless, I've been texting a couple girls recently who I met over the weekend. There's two girls I've run into cross-roads with and would really appreciate some advice because this is the point I always get to. With that in mind please remember I'm a senior in college and these girls also go to the same school as me, which is a large public university
One I met on sunday night at about 1 as the bar was closing. I saw her make eye contact with me as the dance floor cleared out and went and said hi. She was nearly stone-cold sober and I generally was too because I got there late and only had one drink. I made some joke about my friend's costume (it's halloweekend here) and she laughed, complimented mine, and I said "I think you're pretty" which worked in the convo. She blushed and laughed and we talked on the way out. I learned her year was a sophomore and her major and talked about how my major doesn't fit who I am at all but didn't really get into it. She started on the same tangent and related to me and then I learned we were from schools nearby eachother in state and I related to someone she knew. I had a drink in my hand and the bouncer said I couldn't bring it out so she chanted, chug chug chug! I said, not a bad idea, and I finished most of it and threw it out. My friends called me to come to the car as we got outside and I called back, 1 minute! Then I looked at her and said, "Let me get this out of the way before that drink hits me. I never normally do this but you know I think you're pretty and you seem pretty smart. I don't know you at all but how about I take down your number and we grab coffee this week so we can change that?" She was pretty excited about it, I took down her number, and on the way back home I texted her my number and she responded saying, "Hey! I'm glad you say hi"
So I waited out monday and texted her today (tuesday) around lunch time saying hey and asking whats up. this is the dialogue and this is where I need help. I'm aware my texting is clunky, I've just never gotten good at it
girl: heyy I'm at work whats up
me: not too much just getting my studying on for a test I have this week so a little busy too, wanted to see if you might still be free sometime to grab a coffee? I have to procrastinate somehow haha
girl: haha yeah same, 2 exams. Yes coffee!
me: ah thats rough! what days are they?
girl: thursday you?
me: yeah same. it's just psyc and I'll be done around 3 so that afternoon works for me. If not theres always friday
theeeennnn, no response. I'm thinking maybe I asked to soon but that was the point of the convo and I don't know her that well. I made it frank that I don't know her very well at all though so I'm really unsure. I also made it frank that I wanted to get to know her which could seem like I'm putting her on a pedestal but I'm a pretty decent looking guy and have some solid social proofing on campus. The second girl went generally the same way, texted her and I mentioned a day, and then she didn't respond either. I'll post the details of the other convo if needed but advice on this would be awesome