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    Nicha is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need help with a girl in the university.

    Hey, i really like this girl in my class in the university, but i got so wasted last weekend (biggest party of the semester)that i found another girl in the party. Im not like really close to her yet, but does the fact that i found another girl, (and lets say that she saw it,) hurt my chances with the one i like?

    I really like this girl and i have zero clue what to do, and i am dead searious...

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    Default Re: need help with a girl in the university.

    In most cases, you need to be yourself.... the display you did at that party could be a DHV, which is good.. means you are a good partier, you have abilities to give her space and meet other people (girls and guys) . it makes you look awesome.

    Now if you were slobbering over that other girl, and screaming like a child, it would be a different case.

    I think if you like her a lot, direct approach, and just say you like her and would like to hang out for coffee or a snack between classes, that way it's casual and it allows her and you to know each other better...

    another trick is say you missed a little part of the notes and want to get it off of her... get her number and tell her to meet you at the library, and say you guys can review stuff together too...

    hope this helps.

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    Default Re: need help with a girl in the university.

    Her seeing you with another girl should help you. It flips the Preselection switch in her brain. The fact that you were socializing at the party and talking to a lot of people builds Social Proof which is also very important. Those are both DHV's to be sure.

    I agree with Studmuffin in the fact that you should just ask the girl to hang out.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Nicha is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with a girl in the university.

    Thanks for the help guys.

    Im gonna try and ask her if she wants to join me to the mall and grab a coffee or something.

    Could i also like: "you have good fashion style, help me grab some pants for me (or whatever) at the mall!?, and some coffee?"

    is that a way to make it a little casual or what do u guys think?

    thanks


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