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    Default What are the rules of engagement

    hey guys, just a few questions regarding social etiquette ect.

    1. I notice when im texting most girls, they use smiley faces, x's, grammar, exclamation marks ect... is it wise that i follow suit or should i put as little effort into those things as possible to make it look like im not trying to impress her? And should i incorporate smiley faces or is that to homo?

    2. I always have this thought in my head that when i chill with a chick at hers or my house, it will always lead to sex with her expecting me to initiate. Is this a misconception?

    3. When is the best time to start being mean or start jesting? Since reading a few PUA books it makes me think, from the get go i need to be mean and sound like a douche in order to impress the opposite sex. is there a point in a relationship, say on the second date or second chill sess that i should start? And where do i draw the line so im not put into the freindzone regarding being nice and agreeing on certain points of hers?

    4. I find i start conversations with chicks on facebook that i havnt properly met (seen them around but not really spoken to) and it escalates into texting, is it weird to invite them to do something just us 2, or should i include my mates or their mates to make it less awkward?

    5. There are a few chicks i know who are around 3-4/10's that i have no sexual desires for but wish to be friends with as they sound like fun people to be around. Is it acceptable to go to their house and watch a movie or hang with. or will they get the wrong idea and think i just want to fark which will put me in an awkward position when i want to decline and not hurt their feelings. advice would be great.

    6. The 3-4/10's i want to be freinds with have hot as fark freinds, but one of the 3-4/10's is a clinger, how can i use her to get to the hotter ones without hurting her feelings?

    Those are my main questions, i posted them hear as it saves me posting individual ones in all the sections.

    Cheers and looking forward to your answers.
    PS: Im noob when it comes to chicks, im 20 and only had sex once and suffered insane performance anxiety. feelsbadman.jpg

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    Default Re: What are the rules of engagement

    1) I use smileys quite often. I don't personally think that it's gay or anything, because there's nothing gay in getting your message across. I use the smiley when I'm teasing heavily.
    2) No, it's not.
    3) You should start as soon as possible. Not right off the bat, but as soon as you have enough material to grow momentum. For instance, one time I opened a HB giving her the finger and then winking and smiling knowingly. She laughed hard.
    4) That really depends. If they're iffy about it or in general, throw the "bring your friends too" line. Make sure you bring yours too.
    5) As long as you don't hit on them, that's more than indicated.
    6) You won't hurt her feelings.

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    Default Re: What are the rules of engagement

    thanks for the reply.

    so the thought in my head for question 2 is correct?

    and sweet, ill start using smiley faces again


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