I have been hitting on my co-worker (age 20) for about a year. The most I have gotten out of our relationship so far is getting her to play racquet ball with me (age 23). She knows I have a gf and she has a bf.
This is a text between her and I from today. I just stopped into work to grab some papers and pretended to barley notice her:
HER: Where's the fire? Lol speedy Gonzalez much?
ME: Who is this?
(I have her number labeled but I am trying to act like I don't care enough to save her number)
HER: This is Natalie from work
ME: Ha ha yeah i have an exam on friday I have barely studied for and my inkjet died on me
HER: Ah i see good luck!!
ME: Thx babe
(short message;trying to act like im in a rush to stay with the same theme of not having enough time for her)
HER: Uh... Sure. Whatever
I think I farked up at the end and came off creepy but I would like to hear what others think about this text dialogue and how I can improve my game. To give some advice back to the community when texting always wait at least twice as long to respond back to the girl you are interested in. It will make her more excited and make you seem less desperate. (AKA she texts you back after 4 min then you text here in 8min)
Anyway, any advice?