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    Default She's losing interest. How to proceed?

    There's a girl from my class, and I kinda have a crush on her. We've known each other for two months now. In the first week I made quite the impression on her by being at the top of my game, making her smile and laugh all the time. I could tell she was into me.

    We didn't have a lot of interaction afterwards though, but the last three weeks we have been growing closer together. We started texting, ending them with X's, and she looks me up with questions regarding school. I was at the point where I wanted to start kinoing her and get her on a date. This was delayed for a couple of days due to circumstances (day off, illness).

    Now, last time I was near her house (she lives in a different city), and she texted me when the football game would be over so her mom could park her car and that she was studying. I started texting back that I knew things to do that are a lot more fun than studying on a saturday night. She just kept replying 'hahahaha' at my attempts to lure out an invitation to her place (obviously I can't invite myself).

    A buddy of mine thinks she's losing interest because I make myself seem too easy by saying stuff like 'hey beautiful' over text too often. He advised me to leave the matter be until she starts looking for my attention again.

    What do you guys think? How to proceed?

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    Default Re: She's losing interest. How to proceed?

    I probably wouldn't say "hey beautiful" in a text when she hasn't shown that much interest. I would suggest you tease her more, but otherwise I'll differ to some of the real experts on this site.

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    Default Re: She's losing interest. How to proceed?

    I just realised that it would have been a lot easier to get to see her by texting 'we should have drinks after the match'. Didn't think of that at the time. That way we would have had a relaxed, casual date and I could have started kino.

    The match took up too much of my attention to think of that. I didn't really think the texts through as I should have.

    Anyways, is there still some advice out there to the OP?


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