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    Talking Newbie Critique

    So I am new at this and I would love some guidance.

    I have always gotten nervous in social situations. I have always been the guy that has been broken up with. Purely out of lack of confidence in finding someone else, and being made fun of when I was younger. I now seem like the social guy, but this is all an illusion.

    I work out, and dress nicely, but I am lacking in the confidence. I began reading several books that have completely changed the way I think which brings me here, now.

    I have read "Penetrating the Game of the Pick-up Artist", "The Art of Seduction", "Alpha Male". I am reading "Introducing NLP", "Influencing", and the "48 Laws of Power". These books are changing my life.

    I still talk to much due to obvious insecurity which kills the "mysterious" factor of my game. I also am a little Btch in the aspect of lingering around girls.

    My goals are to gain the "I don't give a Fck" attitude, while working on my layer of mystery.

    I find myself wanting to constantly talk due to my immediate feelings, while caring too much about others judgement.

    Please give me feedback on what I can do. Starting points, other books I can read. Maybe some workshops and wingman in Tucson. I am an open book, so give ideas and advice.

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Bro i know EXACTLY what u feel and what u mean the truth is u can change who u are contrary to what other people say and or think but the thing is that it is a slow process u have to take a real subjectif look at urself and u're personality, and constrate on changing one small thing at a time
    example: even if u say one word less a day then u normally do it is progress
    then with time u won't need to concentrate on not doing that small thing that bothers u u're mind will have adapted to it and then move on to the next
    This way is long and hard but WILL change u're personality and WILL help u gain confidence
    gd luck bro

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    try to open up a little bit more....strike a simple conversation.

    Practice will help you get there.

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Bro i know EXACTLY what u feel and what u mean the truth is u can change who u are contrary to what other people say and or think but the thing is that it is a slow process u have to take a real subjectif look at urself and u're personality, and constrate on changing one small thing at a time
    example: even if u say one word less a day then u normally do it is progress
    then with time u won't need to concentrate on not doing that small thing that bothers u u're mind will have adapted to it and then move on to the next
    This way is long and hard but WILL change u're personality and WILL help u gain confidence
    gd luck bro
    I appreciate the advice and encouragement. I am going to try to make improvements one day at a time. Thanks man.

    -Joe

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Quote Originally Posted by accessibleME View Post
    try to open up a little bit more....strike a simple conversation.

    Practice will help you get there.
    I thought it would be better to close up a little bit? What do you mean "open up a little bit more"?

    I appreciate the suggestions.

    -Joe

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    sure bro anytime feel free to pm me anytime i will get back to u as soon as i can.

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    sure bro anytime feel free to pm me anytime i will get back to u as soon as i can.
    Is there any technique you would recommend, or anything I could do to work on the control aspect?

    What about books? Is there anything else you would work on?

    What works for you? What doesn't?

    -Joe

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Some men talk little and come off as deep and mysterious. But chatty guys can also be mysterious. Talking about a range of subjects giving off an impression of being smart and sophisticated, but not letting any personal information slip. I think women will want to get to know you more.

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    not really bro its just will power i guess u have to just want it bad enough as for me as soon as i get the feeling i'm about to talk for insecurity reasons i just look sideways and think about sometihng else, something i have to do or about a girl i want to pick up or contemplate a night of sarging that i had done

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    Default Re: Newbie Critique

    Quote Originally Posted by AnaM View Post
    Some men talk little and come off as deep and mysterious. But chatty guys can also be mysterious. Talking about a range of subjects giving off an impression of being smart and sophisticated, but not letting any personal information slip. I think women will want to get to know you more.
    I appreciate your input and aspect, I haven't really thought of that either. Thanks.

    -Joe


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