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    kazfiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right now

    Hey,

    My name is Rico, I'm from the netherlands.

    I've really increased my game in the last 2 years, I started working out. Dressed better. Had a huge boost of confidence, lost my virginity and well, it's all because of one girl I fell in love with years ago.

    I've tried everything I could to forget her the past 3 years.

    I've tried getting with another girl, but none get past the first date. I've slept with 13 women since then, I can't even look myself in the eye afterwards.

    And now I met her again, I'm sold. This is the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with.

    I'm not putting her on a pedestal, it's just that other women up 'till now have just been inferior to her. I see her as a true equal...

    So, how would one go about something like this? She knows, since I tried to get with her when she was in a "temporary" break up with her boyfriend, one orchestrated by me (no, that she does not know)

    I'm going crazy, and I need help from expers, my own experience here doesn't cut it.

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    kazfiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    I want to add that she is the "hopeful romantic" as described in Pandoras box, I'm now looking for ways to convince her he's not the one.

    And thats a lot harder then convince her I'm the one..

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    First off, DON'T try to put other people down. It lowers you own value because it makes you seem intimidated by the other guy. And girls don't listen to words anyways - they listen to emotion. They will say they'll dump the guy after you've said that he's not for her, but have sex with him the next day because he triggers her emotions, despite being bad for her. It also makes you seem dishonest, about which Pandora's Box says the following on hopeful romantics:

    "Most men often run into trouble with a Romantic by coming off as insincere or "player-ish." "If you try to lie or cover something up, she will lose all hope of a future with you, because to her, relationships are founded in honesty."


    Stop focusing on him, and start focusing on yourself. Be the way you were with those 13 other girls.


    Also, try to add some of what hopeful romantics like into yourself. Be a challenge for her, as they like that.

    "The hopeful romantic wants a man to save. She wants to warm his heart with her love. But remember - it's the challenge itself that is attractive. As your horniness doesn't go away, nor does her hunger for a man to conquer. Once you have been subdued and domesticated, she will search for a new challenge. If you can stay a challenge, just a bit out of reach, a but out of her feminine influence, she will be an extremely docile, warm haven of sexual embrace and emotional support."


    The fact she already knows you're interested is to your disadvantage. Read up on "Let's just be friends" material (LJBR) to try and get out of the friend zone.

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    kazfiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    I havent said one bad thing about her boyfriend, I'm not stupid. Still, thanks for reminding me.

    I have gotten them apart by defending him, then she attacked him even harder.

    All she knows is that I like her quite a bit. And, I'm a hopeful romantic as well.

    I never act like someone else around anyone, the inky times I put on a persona is when I speech/give a presentation. I'm fairly quiet, unless I need to speak up. So that has just become a part of me.

    I listened to vins 7 ways, i have been doing most of the ones that apply.

    So... Any good anti-ljbf stuff?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    Uncurable oneitis it seems, somehow thinking about being with someone else just makes me sick. Literally.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    So they got back together and are working hard on their relationship again. What can I do? at the moment I'm reading Magic Bullets, I've got most of the pandoras box ebook down.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from my past, she's in a tough spot in her relationship right

    For now you can just be a friend to her and continue on improving yourself. Try to gauge her relationship with her boyfriend. It sounds rocky and will eventually end without any help from you. She knows you're still interested in her but if there's no overture from you, she just might make the first move.


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