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    stevejones23 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Please Help, Really need help with this work girl!!!

    Hi guys,

    Last month I posted a topic on a girl I work with that I beleive may like me. It mainy listed the IOI's etc.

    A couple of weeks ago I went out on a night out with a few friends. We ended up in a nightclub, all a bit drunk, I then bumped into one of her best friends that I have been introduced to by this girl before. I was talking to her for a while (mainly cause my bud wanted to get into this girl), then this friend who was drunk aswel starts asking me if im 'in love' with the girl I work with. She kept asking me that question for about 15 minutes, in that time she was saying stuff like:

    'Come on just say it and i'll sort it for you'
    'I can tell u like her, your games been given away'
    'She's shown me ur texts'
    'she thinks ur a really nice guy but doesnt think u like her in that way'

    During this questioning I just wouldnt answer and kept smiling at her friend and looking her in the eyes. (this was my way of saying, yeh i do, u kno it but im not saying it)

    Right, now heres the probem. Before then this girl would be texting me constantly and we were getting on really well. Come the Monday when I saw her at work I asked her if her friend can remember stuff when shes drunk. She told me her friend said she was too drunk to remember. I like a dick continued to ask her this all week and kinda took the piss with it, by saying stuff like, 'if ur going out this weekend, watch what ur friend says, by friday she'd got really annoyed by it. We got into an arguement over it on friday as she knew me and her friend had been talking about something.

    Also since that monday she's also stopped texting bck as frequent and saying shes been not getting my texts. By the weekend id realised id been a dick about things by tying to play games and I apologised to her. Since then I havent text her and she hasnt text me, we've only worked together once since then and I guess she was ok round me.

    As i was a dick about it all, i sent her friend a text apologising for messing her friend round with our conversation. Her friend replied back and said:

    'dont worry about it, i do remember the convo but havent told her as it may make her feel uncomfortable as u work together, also if u want her to kno its best to come from u'

    Right so, thats where Im up to now. I really need help here with this. If anyone can answer the following questions it will be a huge help to me:

    1. How could I have improved my response in the club? (did i handle it badly)
    2. Why do u think shes not responding to my txts, do u think her friends told her or not?
    3. Does this girl i work with deffo like me? (or did lol)
    4. What should be my next move, should I just tell her my feelings?

    Much appreciated.

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    AnaM is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Please Help, Really need help with this work girl!!!

    Well, you shouldn't have gone on and on all week about what her friend said about your meeting. The last thing you want her to think is you're interested in her friend now. I thinks it's a good time to tell her how you feel but don't make a big production out of it. Also, stop talking to the friend too much.

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    Default Re: Please Help, Really need help with this work girl!!!

    To me, this is one of two possible scenarios...

    1) She is creeped out by out by you, and is too afraid to ask, and she wants her friend to find out because she doesn't want to be a Btch. (I DO NOT THINK THIS IS THE CASE!)

    2) The other case is she is incredibly interested in you, to the point where she talks about you to her friend. (I DO THINK THIS IS THE CASE!).

    -I think you handled the club very well. You maintained composure which shows leadership while maintaining the mysteriousness that pulls girls.

    -I think she is not responding to you texts because you may be overcrowding her. If she told her friend, than her friend told her. Regardless of what woman say, they always will tell their friend, no matter what they tell you. They tell you this to elicit information from you, and it works.

    -She is definitely interested or else she wouldn't text you back period.

    -My recommendation would be to back off A LOT! Still talk to her, but make it seem like she might lose your interest. I guarantee she knows you like her on account of both her, and her friends responses, but you are making it too easy for her. Back off, and see what happens!

    ***Just backing off will make a lot of the difference. If there is some way of incorporating a way that you may be losing interest in her, maybe mention another girl(THIS WILL DRIVE HER MAD!) This would achieve best results.

    Hope this helps.

    -Joe


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