I've dated a string of women who have all had major sexual hangups. The reasons ranged from sexual abuse to strict religious upbringings. The end result is that I was expected to cuddle them and listen to their emotional problems while putting my own needs second. In one of these cases, the girl laid next to me in bed and masterbated while speaking about past sexual experiences that she'd had. Some of these situations have left me scarred and put me off sex.
All of these women were attractive, super confident, flirty, and in some cases they initiated sex, so how can I pick out the women who have sexual issues before I've slept with them?
The question I'd like to ask you guys is: is there a way you can tell if a woman has sexual issues before you sleep with her? I really don't want any more negative sexual experiences.