Week 1: The story starts 4 weeks ago, outside of a local club I ran into this girl that knew a friend from home. And we hit it off. Didn't really go anywhere, however she invited me to a farmers market with her friends the following day. I go, and the whole time we're talking with her friends and being normal, part way through she starts physically flirting with me (touching, leaning, holding). And we kind of end it at that, with daily texts throughout the week.
Week 2: We meet up at the same club again, and not much happens, I flirt with her a bit, she flirts with me. I then step my game up and see if she has a thing for me by bringing girls around, getting numbers, and doing stuff with them in front of her. I get the reaction I want: she gets jealous and pretty much makes sure no one else gets near me before she jumps in between lulz.
Week 3: We meet up again at the same club, and I end up hanging out with her, her roommate, and her gay friend, again normal flirting - indicators = body language, and the topic of conversation of who I think is cuter, her or her roommate.
Week 4: (this weekend), Friday: I invite her out to a party where she comes for like 5 minutes and I give her a friendly kiss on the cheek, she bounces to a club where the rest of the party ends up eventually. At the club I'm testing her again and bring up more girls and such shenanigans, getting the result of post-club she basically hanging from me.
Saturday: She forgets that we had a plan to do something together, and I meet up with her later at the club, however... As soon as she shows up, no words, I pull her close and kiss her. She pushes back, makes some decision in her head, and kisses me again. Few moments pass, pushes back, asks security questions of long term crap and other stuff, and kisses me again. Pushes back again and says she wants to dance, so we dance... I go say bye to my friends for like 2 minutes and when I get back she tells me that we'll talk later and basically brushes me off. All the while one of her guy friends is basically playing body guard. She asks me if I was afraid (of what, I have no idea), and i replied with a fark no (ready to punch this kids head off). Either way, i end up just walking away in a fit of anger before someone got hurt.
Sunday: She texts me this morning with "Hey, I'm sorry for being so strange last night, I was really drunk, hopefully I didn't do anything too offensive. Also I totally forgot about suit shopping, were you able to find something? When's your next interview?
Me: Mmm, last night?
Me: What of it? Also, the suit is for a wedding next sunday, decided to get a custom one from Boston.
Her: Oh nice! Yea custom is Probs the best option
so here-in lies the issue, I wanna send an ultimatum text and/or get her to meet so I can ask the ultimatum question. If its a text, I have no idea how to phrase it. So any advice would be great. And sorry for the long post. 2nd option is act like nothing ever happened and be friends, awkwardly. The 3rd option is, drop her for calling me a coward and forgetting an outing, that she proposed (this seems a bit difficult since my reply text basically was a you're forgiven kind of response).