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    Default Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Week 1: The story starts 4 weeks ago, outside of a local club I ran into this girl that knew a friend from home. And we hit it off. Didn't really go anywhere, however she invited me to a farmers market with her friends the following day. I go, and the whole time we're talking with her friends and being normal, part way through she starts physically flirting with me (touching, leaning, holding). And we kind of end it at that, with daily texts throughout the week.

    Week 2: We meet up at the same club again, and not much happens, I flirt with her a bit, she flirts with me. I then step my game up and see if she has a thing for me by bringing girls around, getting numbers, and doing stuff with them in front of her. I get the reaction I want: she gets jealous and pretty much makes sure no one else gets near me before she jumps in between lulz.

    Week 3: We meet up again at the same club, and I end up hanging out with her, her roommate, and her gay friend, again normal flirting - indicators = body language, and the topic of conversation of who I think is cuter, her or her roommate.

    Week 4: (this weekend), Friday: I invite her out to a party where she comes for like 5 minutes and I give her a friendly kiss on the cheek, she bounces to a club where the rest of the party ends up eventually. At the club I'm testing her again and bring up more girls and such shenanigans, getting the result of post-club she basically hanging from me.

    Saturday: She forgets that we had a plan to do something together, and I meet up with her later at the club, however... As soon as she shows up, no words, I pull her close and kiss her. She pushes back, makes some decision in her head, and kisses me again. Few moments pass, pushes back, asks security questions of long term crap and other stuff, and kisses me again. Pushes back again and says she wants to dance, so we dance... I go say bye to my friends for like 2 minutes and when I get back she tells me that we'll talk later and basically brushes me off. All the while one of her guy friends is basically playing body guard. She asks me if I was afraid (of what, I have no idea), and i replied with a fark no (ready to punch this kids head off). Either way, i end up just walking away in a fit of anger before someone got hurt.

    Sunday: She texts me this morning with "Hey, I'm sorry for being so strange last night, I was really drunk, hopefully I didn't do anything too offensive. Also I totally forgot about suit shopping, were you able to find something? When's your next interview?
    Me: Mmm, last night?
    Her: Yup
    Me: What of it? Also, the suit is for a wedding next sunday, decided to get a custom one from Boston.
    Her: Oh nice! Yea custom is Probs the best option

    so here-in lies the issue, I wanna send an ultimatum text and/or get her to meet so I can ask the ultimatum question. If its a text, I have no idea how to phrase it. So any advice would be great. And sorry for the long post. 2nd option is act like nothing ever happened and be friends, awkwardly. The 3rd option is, drop her for calling me a coward and forgetting an outing, that she proposed (this seems a bit difficult since my reply text basically was a you're forgiven kind of response).

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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Not by text

    You gotta let her know it's bullshit but not make it a huge deal. Be cool, don't make it an ultimatum. Invite her for a drink or when you're all out with friends

    You can pursue dating her just know she's gonna be playing games, girls like that don't just switch them off so you gotta be prepared to play them back with her a bit
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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Thanks, RB. I pretty much came to the same conclusion, decided not to text at midnight and put her puss on a pedestal, texted her this morning to meet up for coffee. The end result is gonna be that if she continues to play games, I follow the wise words of Jay-Z..."On to the next one!"

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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    OK, progress report and self-fail, advice on recovery.

    The story ensues: so I met up with her at 10pm wedn, and we talked with her dropping hints the whole time that she wanted a relationship, everything was there, the attraction, the body language, the topic of conversation (sex, relationships, etc)...and what do I do? I ignored it all and played it stupid. I kept talking, deflecting, no fucking idea what I was doing. I kept thinking during the convo that I should ask the big question and stop skirting the main topic but nothing never acted on it. At the end of an hour she was like I should get going and we walked back to her car and I said bye and walked away stupidly.

    I tried to get her to meet me the day after so I could rectify the situation but failed. Now I'm about a 2-300 miles away and wont see her for at least until after thanksgiving. In the interim, I should/will text her, however I have no idea how to keep it interesting grr. Here's where you guys come in. What do I say to keep her interested, which I'm sure she still is, without sounding needy or just plain stupid. No wasted texts basically. Also, the alternative is that I can not do anything until when I get back and be stupidly blunt saying Hey, lets do this, you me right now. (or something along those lines).

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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Neither. Wait don't text her for a good 2 days. I'll give you more later
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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Constantly trying to get her to meet you, opening her, or being "blunt" and throwing yourself out there for her all demonstrate lower value

    Ignore her for at least 2 days. If she sends you a message wait like 2 hours and send some response teasing her
    Just don't overdo it on the texting, if it's been a couple days you can re-open her to keep the contact open but say something interesting, not just "hey how are you" or "happy thanksgiving". Maybe something like -
    "hey I got a really important question for you"
    ..........
    "brown gravy or white?"

    Whatever you go with just don't show neediness

    When she's back, get a date, watch a movie, and absolutely ramp up the kino. If you're touching and prodding her appropriately and teasing it makes it much easier

    You want to escalate? Try this

    Movie date at your house

    Absolutely put your arm around her, get comfortable, don't second guess yourself here

    After a few minuts start gently rubbing your hand through her hair, maybe massaging her scalp
    If she is receptive to this, just keep doing it for a little bit until she's really enjoying it, then use that hand to grab her hair and gently turn her head and kiss her. After that it's pretty easy

    Under no circumstances are you to simply ask if she wants to be your girlfriend. Don't even bring it up. If you really want that with her it's fine but make her ask you first, even if it takes a few more dates

    Hope that helps, let me know if you got more questions
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    Default Re: Need help with girl giving me the run around

    Oh ps, if a girl let's you rub your hand through her hair it means she will let you kiss her, never fails, that's why I suggest that it's a safe test to get started
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