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    Stineman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default In Friend-Zone with girl in club, HELP ME OUT

    Hey guys,

    So I'm a senior undergrad and I run a fitness club on campus. There's a girl that was part of the club last year (only one, martial arts) and the president last year was hitting on her a lot of creeped her out. I still wanted her to come and chill with us at our club outings so I was my usual self and made it more comfortable for her to come chill with the guys (which she wanted to be a part of). Recently we've been having some good talks and I've notice we have a lot in common. I inherited the president's role so I was very cautious about making her feel uncomfortable and not feel like no matter what she was going to get hit on by the guys so I made it a point to respect her in class and out for a little bit. She's shown up to some of the parties I've thrown and I didn't flirt with her but recently in one of our late night convo's she mentioned how I never flirted with her when I was drunk and I was just straight up and said, "yeah well I didn't want to creep you out, its on now." and she said there was no way I could be a creep like him so I've started being more flirty. We've talked about stories of past hookups pretty openly and I have admitted some of my player-ness to her. She's definitely an IJR and just texted me saying, "it's offical. I need a bang buddy. It's been 4 months. Help me find someone." I don't know if she's totally joking and just trying to get it in my head for me to think about but being the justifier I am myself I find myself feeling attracted to her. Any ideas on how to transition this AWAY from the friend role?

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    Default Re: In Friend-Zone with girl in club, HELP ME OUT

    Nice nickname.. Barney Stinson?
    Now to the subject.. You don`t want to fall into the friendzone and thank god you`re asking this Before you fell into it You should simply be flirty, and look for fake IOIs and learn to recognize when she is only shit testing you. I can`t help you with that.. But.. Do the thing called microcalibration- IOI for IOI, IOD for IOD.. You should be flirty and all that, but don`t be available to her all the time, and text her and meet blahblah.. Just ask her out, or even better, if there`s a party where you know you will both be there, you can game her there.. But in this case no future arrangments.. And when you do that, you simply game her, or whatever you do (gambits and so on) and make a KC..
    Don`t start becoming a friend material and text her and be available to her, and constantly talk to her.. Just wait for one chance, or create one, where you will be able to game her with a KC.. And that˙s my recipe for you to not fall into the FZ.. Good luck


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