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    pichow is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Need some life assuring advice, please.

    I have met this girl a few times now been specking for a while and been on an unofficial date recently ( which involved her going out of her way to do so, got a few IoI's also ).

    I told her a while ago how i felt and was let down lightly however things are a bit different now.

    How would i go about trying to find out how she feels or move things on?

    I am crazy about this girl please help.

    Pichow.

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    You can't be so direct. As soon as she knows it's in the bag she has no incentive to work for it. Start teasing her and qualifying her a bit, don't just automatically show interest unless she jumps through your hoop first
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    Post Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    cheers fella, yeah have not been to direct have spent some good time together, and have laid off of thats good, i have picked up a few girls before with some top results but this is very different and havent been in this situation before thats why this kind of advice it cruital!!

    cheers. any more would be awesome.

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    im in a similar situation right now. Im going to tease, bust on the girl and try and escalate physically (WITHOUT TELLING HER MY FEELINGs). If it doesnt work then il continue being friends with her, move on and mabye try again in future.

    You could do the same

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    Post Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    mate thats inspiring good idea, keep me updated on the progess i shall do the same needed something new ha, Cheers

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    No worries, I've been busting on the girl i like, teasing her etc. and making myself busy so that i cant see her for as long as she wants. Im meant to be meeting her for lunch this friday, so i'll try escalating then. I'll keep you updated. If things dont work out right, hopefully we will learn something.

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    pichow is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    haha yeh can only try and if we do then we dont learn anything but get laid!! hahha

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    update
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    I met up with the girl for lunch, leaned back, flirted and had fun with her. She seemed like she was having a good time. She was playfully hitting etc. However it just didnt feel natural to escalate or "make a move" like kiss her, especially as it was in a pub/restaurant. She might like me but im not sure. We both had things to do as we were in there for a good few hours and left. During lunch i mentioned that i was going out for my flatmates birthday tomorrow and asked whether she wanted to come. She said maybe, but might just go to the uni club later. Im also meant to be meeting her at our tennis club sunday.

    Do you think i should ask her tomorrow whether she wants to come out with us or not talk to her untill we meet up sunday?

    also, as we had a good time and established more of a connection and hopefully more attraction, do you think i should ask her out again and go for it after some time or wait and see if she comes to me?

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    ask her out. you have to develop your natural style. obey the rules but integrate them within yourself.

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    Default Re: Need some life assuring advice, please.

    hmm mate i think meet up with her just u both again then a mix with your friends. its funny that your date was exactly the same as what mine was 2 weeks ago she isn't the kind of girl to want some guy to make a move without getting to know him, i have come to terms that it will take a while for us to get together but it is worth it on how awesome this girl is.

    You seem eager as like me mate, ask her like where does she see it going? as your not asking her out but you a solidifying your intentions. i want to do it soo i will let you know how it goes mate.


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