I am 18 years old AFC( never had a girlfriend)
Me and my friend were in a Bowling Club where we go almost everyday and we met other 2 girls we knew cause we partied togheter before.
Last time we partied i tried to fark one of them(HB8) witch she refused me cause i was completely drunk,and this friend of mine hooked up with her friend and i was trying to hookup with that HB8 again , and i tried the "your not my type tehnique" my friend said it worked cause she was keeping her eyes on me later that night we meet again in club where my friend hooked up with her friend again and i was trying to get this HB8 we danced a bit.We met to other friend and then we go to one's house and there my friend ofcourse farked her friend and that hb8 stayed with us (3other guys) and after that i have gone home.
So the next day few of my friends said they were dissapointed in me cause i didn't fark that HB8,they said i could have her so easy.
I didn't make a move on her cause she danced with some other guys in club and i didn't seen any IOI's or maybe i was to drunk to see,idk why they were dissapointed in me.I just didnt thaught that i should make a move,my friend's said she was into me but i didnt thaught so.
I need some help on learning when to make the moves.I need to know how to create attraction in those sitiuations
it is really hard for me, i dont have much confidence because i have some weight problem.I need more self esteem and tips for night's like this.
The main fact is that i dont know why they were dissapointed in me,i didn't saw IOI's so i didn't make a move.
EDIT:So That girl and my friend meet again they were fucking while me and the HB8 were listening to music and i tried to kiss her like 2 times then i stopped and she was kind of all over me and i tried to kiss her again and she didint wann she was kinda making fun of me atleast i think so i was kinda drunk again..... I will freeze her out ....
but my self esteem still got fucked up so thats a bit sad for me....
Waiting for any PUA response