Alright this might be a bit of a long post-
I'm pretty sure this girl liked me two years ago (we are the same age). I didn't really have any feelings for her then, and I didn't find her to be quite as attractive. Over the summer she hooked up with my best friend, and later she hooked up with another friend who is a year older than us. In the last two years, I have become very deep within the friend zone. She has been hooking up with the friend who is a year older than us whenever he comes back from college.
One night when I was out of town, (about 2 months ago) she told me that she hooked up with another girl at a party that night and that she was looking for guys to hook up with. I thought that she was trying to make me jealous so I told her 'cool, do whatever you want, I don't care', to which she was upset. Later that night she called again and said 'How could you not care about me? I consider you one of my best friends etc.'
I've been trying to get her further out of the friend zone- but it's been difficult. I started by not really talking to her that much in recent times. When we do see each other, I DHV, neg her, etc... We hung out about a week ago and I was slightly drunk and supposedly was being a dick to her (too much negging?). I apologized to her in person and via text basically saying 'Sorry I was so mean, I didn't mean to offend you'.
It kind of seems clear that she isn't really interested in me. I have a few obstacles to overcome: She's taller than me, she thinks my best friend is hot (drunk dials him etc), and we're in the friend zone.
How do I get her to notice me? I'm almost out of the friend zone because we've grown somewhat distant, but how do I get her to start thinking about me the way I think about her? I really actually like this girl, and seeing her makes me smile (no homo).