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    Default Friend-Zone complication, Neg advice needed

    Alright this might be a bit of a long post-

    I'm pretty sure this girl liked me two years ago (we are the same age). I didn't really have any feelings for her then, and I didn't find her to be quite as attractive. Over the summer she hooked up with my best friend, and later she hooked up with another friend who is a year older than us. In the last two years, I have become very deep within the friend zone. She has been hooking up with the friend who is a year older than us whenever he comes back from college.

    One night when I was out of town, (about 2 months ago) she told me that she hooked up with another girl at a party that night and that she was looking for guys to hook up with. I thought that she was trying to make me jealous so I told her 'cool, do whatever you want, I don't care', to which she was upset. Later that night she called again and said 'How could you not care about me? I consider you one of my best friends etc.'

    I've been trying to get her further out of the friend zone- but it's been difficult. I started by not really talking to her that much in recent times. When we do see each other, I DHV, neg her, etc... We hung out about a week ago and I was slightly drunk and supposedly was being a dick to her (too much negging?). I apologized to her in person and via text basically saying 'Sorry I was so mean, I didn't mean to offend you'.

    It kind of seems clear that she isn't really interested in me. I have a few obstacles to overcome: She's taller than me, she thinks my best friend is hot (drunk dials him etc), and we're in the friend zone.

    How do I get her to notice me? I'm almost out of the friend zone because we've grown somewhat distant, but how do I get her to start thinking about me the way I think about her? I really actually like this girl, and seeing her makes me smile (no homo).

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    Default Re: Friend-Zone complication, Neg advice needed

    Whatever you do, stop the negging. That's for HB10's who you have just met. Be playful, but don't neg. You say that you do so too much yourself already. I had the same thing recently, when a girl I negged once too often said I "started to repeat myself and am tasteless". Doing so too often will just drive you apart.

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    Default Re: Friend-Zone complication, Neg advice needed

    thanks man! will do, good looks!
    but how I do get her attracted to me without negging her? just keep DHV'ing and such? get with other girls?

    Edit: I will see her at a party tonight more than likely


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