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    Default I jumped this girl's hoop, then she was disinterested, Help!

    Hey guys,

    I need some advice regarding a situation I went through last night with this girl. Basically, it all began 1 week ago when I met this fresher at my uni during work as a student ambassador (She's one too). During the day, I majorly DHV'd by being the social guy that was fun and cool to talk to. So she was really interested and we decided it would be cool to meet up at a club the next tuesday.

    So when I went to this club with a few of my mates, there she was. Drunk, helpless and hot. After 20 minutes of being there with her, I ended up kissing her on the dance floor and grinding up that fine ass. But since I had work at 5am, it was too early for her to want to go home, so I let her be to enjoy the club.

    The next day she text me all day seeming like she had the best night ever. She was hooked. So then we decided to meet up on the saturday. Which was yesterday. However I had a house party to attend to, but I said "Yeah sure, I'll come on over after about 10 ".

    Anyway after the house party which I left quite early at 10, I headed down to her house. As soon as I arrived, she was there with all her house mates and a few other mates. So I thought fair enough, I can DHV here.

    What I noticed however within the first 5 minutes was that whatever I said, the girls in the room started laughing. And it was the sort of laughter that meant they were laughing at me, not with me. I was basically being a fun guy and sending out hooking points, trying to find the common ground. I found it with the guys alright but the two girls were not having it. This girl I came over to see was slouched away from me and she just did not look interested.

    After 30 minutes of chatting to the guys and having a decent fun conversation, she began to seem more keen. I then got a text by my mate asking if I wanted to go out, and I said "Sure mate, I'll see you in 20". When it came time for me to leave, the girl took me to the door and took out a few bags to throw in the bin with her. She stood outside for a second but there was a big gap between us. I decided to not act on it because I felt she didn't deserve my closeness.

    All in all, when she showed disinterest to me, I began to DHV and freeze her out. I believe that by freezing her out after she had invited me round may have been too brutal and also by jumping through her hoop by leaving a house party to see her was a major DLV.

    What do you guys think?
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    Default Re: I jumped this girl's hoop, then she was disinterested, Help!

    It was dlv, but freezing her out and leaving was the right move anyway. You went there to see her, she knew that, so of she was being a pain she deserved it

    Wait 2 days, if she hasn't opened you you can resume normal conversation as if the event never happened

    I got a similar situation last night, i was out at a bar and this girl I was kinda on a date with there with disappeared a bit too long and I was losing value, I just left to go do my thing

    That's my gameplan, wait 2-4 days and act normal
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    Default Re: I jumped this girl's hoop, then she was disinterested, Help!

    Cheers mate. That's some sound advice. I like the idea of waiting 2-4 days and i'll give it a shot. For some reason however, it's like I generally don't care whether I talk to her or not. I've become too choosy :P
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