Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Daniel Kaiser is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 80, Level: 1
    Level completed: 60%, Points required for next Level: 20
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Posts
    6
    Points
    80
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Out of the ordinary? I think I've been friend zoned while IN a relationship!

    Hello Gurus and Newbies!

    I'm here because I've done something I didn't know (for sure) could happen. I've been in this relationship for 7 months, and I think I was slowly being put in the friend zone during the last two months.

    Well, let me explain, she has a serious childhood trauma that extremely difficults my sexual approaches, and thus, we have only had sex ONCE, and it wasn't as good as I would have hoped (she was a virgin, and you know the drill).

    Well I have to admit having commited some rookie mistakes, like not knowing how to deal with a few of her moods, not knowing how to impose my needs and probably many others I didn't pay too much attention.

    Anyway, we didn't really break up, but we are sort of taking a time from the relationship. I feel like I'm not afraid of walking away, but I think we have a lot to go for, and its not time to throw this away just yet. I really wanted to sparkle the attraction again, make her feel that fire we had in the begining, and pay more attention this time around.

    What would you guys suggest? Play cold and distant to match her for a while? Go out and do attraction raising stuff (like Cock and Funny, etc)? And really, is there a point where I can stop playing the game and just relax?

  2. #2
    Virgil's Avatar
    Virgil is offline Moderator / PUA All Star
    Points: 18,408, Level: 86
    Level completed: 12%, Points required for next Level: 442
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social31 days registered10000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    the Netherlands
    Posts
    923
    Points
    18,408
    Level
    86
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    789

    Default Re: Out of the ordinary? I think I've been friend zoned while IN a relationship!

    Jesus, you've been in a relationship for 7 months, only farked her once and been friend zoned while in a relationship? I think you need to immediately find EVERYTHING you can about becoming an alpha male. NOW. You shouldn't be dealing with her moods, you should be having sex with her.

  3. #3
    Daniel Kaiser is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 80, Level: 1
    Level completed: 60%, Points required for next Level: 20
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Posts
    6
    Points
    80
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Out of the ordinary? I think I've been friend zoned while IN a relationship!

    This situation is overwhelming to me. She makes it very hard for me to attempt anything, claiming traumas and refusing invites that would create oportunities, even when we were still madly in love.

    I admit to having lost a few key chances I had, and I can see those were the reasons why she lost attraction with time. I really believed all I had to do was wait for the right moment (it sounds dumb saying it now).

    Anyway, I still think I can have another chance and do things right this time, looking for help not to screw it up again

  4. #4
    nerdprince is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 172, Level: 3
    Level completed: 44%, Points required for next Level: 28
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Posts
    33
    Points
    172
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    14

    Default Re: Out of the ordinary? I think I've been friend zoned while IN a relationship!

    I had a problem like that. I dated this virgin for one month. No Sex, just stupid hookups during weekdays which didn't involve any intercourse. But the relationship itself was exactly your situation. Played distant, cried. Played warm, pulled me away. After a month (an hour after hooking up with her) she came to me and said "lets be friends". I agreed but after 2 days totally ditched her texts and everything. It was around October. She texted me 3 days ago with a long happy thanksgiving break message. Those people are crazy man. They dont know what they want. I am not trying to tell you stop loving your gf. But at least think about it. I start saying "I deserve way better" for couple weeks and got over it. it worked because I do deserve better and you do too!!


Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 11-12-2011, 11:00 PM
  2. might be friend zoned, need help
    By keepurcool in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 08-29-2011, 09:17 AM
  3. 4 Ordinary Faults in Weight Defeat Chart
    By tulum kloogu in forum Self Improvement And Health
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 07-13-2011, 02:06 AM
  4. Am I getting "friend zoned"
    By Ducktaylors in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 06-25-2011, 04:33 PM
  5. Where did I go wrong? Friend zoned.
    By abc123 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 05-30-2011, 10:25 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com