Heya! I'm new to the forum. It seems sweet! Seems like a great way of connecting to fellow gamers and sharing opinions and stories.
I've recently been doing bar game, (i'm from london, england) and two weeks ago I got talking to a really cool girl who approached me by sticking a feather in my hair. I've got lots of social proof built up in that particular bar because I'm a regular - and with an approach like that I was sure I could guarantee a close.
I ended up at her house, in her bed, watching an episode of lost and then making out. I went down on her (maybe this was a mistake) and then ran into lmr when tried to transition for sex. She said we'd only just met. I can't remember what I said in reply, but i felt like I didn't deal with the objection very well. I remember saying 'Well, I don't want to make you do anything your uncomfortable with."
I wasn't entirely sure whether this meant she had reservations about me, or about sex ... so I organised a date the following week - a comedy night, and decided to just build up some more comfort and rapport. It was fine - and a good ioi was that she had an exam the following day at ten in the morning, and that she was going to revise after our date.
Gave her a long kiss goodnight. And agrees that she would organise a date for next monday at a specific venue.
She didn't message me back and its been about a week.
I just wondered how I should go forward from this basically.
She could have forgotten to organise the date - not particularly good - or she could have just chosen not to go with it. I feel like the lmr made her feel like I only wanted her for sex maybe ... I don't know.
Any help would be awesome.