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    newyorkguru is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    I started seeing this Model about two months ago. We were both living in LA. She moved back to London for 3 months about two weeks ago.

    For the first three days she was gone, I heard nothing. I finally texted her and she was so happy i did. We spoke on the phone and she was so sweet thank ing me for making the time to call her.

    Since she has been back now we have texted most days and spoken on the phone every other day or so. Ive given her little jobs to do, like looking for a flat for me to rent whilst I am there. So have had an excuse to call her most days.

    The situation is that she never initiates any contact at all. If I text her she will always reply, but never is the one to innate a conversation. So now the flat finding is over, I decided today instead of sending her a text as I normally would too leave it. As I thought ive heard nothing from her.

    Im going to London to see her in two weeks time for New year and just want to make sure we stay in contact up to then. I kinda feel confused as to whether I should wait for her to initiate contact or just leave it a few days.

    I was going to send a text now saying "sorry i havnt been in touch been so busy today. Hope your having fun...." But then I thought why should i always be the one to make contact.

    Any advice on how to handle this?

    Also when we do text I sometimes get xxx at the end of a conversation but other times no.

    Shes just very laid back and chilled. In LA I made a joke once about if I didnt text her i would never hear from her. Her reply was im just very chilled and dont want to demand attention.

    Do I buy this and how should I react over the next two weeks.

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    Ny help please!!!

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    All I can tell you is I"m very glad you didn't send that text. Because:

    -never apologise (if you bump into someone, OK, but not because you didn't text)
    -there is no reason for you to check in with her. She is not your parole officer

    Also, girls will text anyone they like as a friend or better xxx. That's not a big deal. Focus on the contents and meanings of the texts she sends you instead.

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    The fact is that she is practicallly my girl friend so its not like that I'm trying to date her. I have already planned to see her in 2 weeks time for a month.

    My real question was should I be the one starting the daily contact or should I let her inniate. She's obv got comfortable with me starting it every day.

    I don't want to upset her by breaking this off but also don't want to bore her my being predicatable.

    I've given it one full day yesterday with no contact. Should I now communicate or still wait for her?

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    Even if she's your girl, the above rules still apply. I think you shouldn't be predictable, as women only want that in a marriage.

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    Ok thanks. I just don't want her losing intrest because I had contacted her probably a bit too much in the past week (although she was doing things for me like finding an appartmnet)

    It could come off that now she's done that for me I'm not giving her attention.

    Also she has a place in London. She knows I'm coming to see her, how clear do I make it that I expect her to stay with me.

    Also if she hasn't made contact by tomorrow should I contact her and what would I say?

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    Default Re: Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?

    Any advice?


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