Model Im seeing is just too laid back... What Do I do?
I started seeing this Model about two months ago. We were both living in LA. She moved back to London for 3 months about two weeks ago.
For the first three days she was gone, I heard nothing. I finally texted her and she was so happy i did. We spoke on the phone and she was so sweet thank ing me for making the time to call her.
Since she has been back now we have texted most days and spoken on the phone every other day or so. Ive given her little jobs to do, like looking for a flat for me to rent whilst I am there. So have had an excuse to call her most days.
The situation is that she never initiates any contact at all. If I text her she will always reply, but never is the one to innate a conversation. So now the flat finding is over, I decided today instead of sending her a text as I normally would too leave it. As I thought ive heard nothing from her.
Im going to London to see her in two weeks time for New year and just want to make sure we stay in contact up to then. I kinda feel confused as to whether I should wait for her to initiate contact or just leave it a few days.
I was going to send a text now saying "sorry i havnt been in touch been so busy today. Hope your having fun...." But then I thought why should i always be the one to make contact.
Any advice on how to handle this?
Also when we do text I sometimes get xxx at the end of a conversation but other times no.
Shes just very laid back and chilled. In LA I made a joke once about if I didnt text her i would never hear from her. Her reply was im just very chilled and dont want to demand attention.
Do I buy this and how should I react over the next two weeks.