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  1. #11
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    Default Re: I have a situation

    This is the update on my situation, so i did what you told me to do studdmuffin "meet me at the law library at 5 bring cofee" she said okay i will but first i need to get help on some of my assignments, i didnt respond to her message. I waited from 5 till about 9 studying then i went to the other library to take hang with some friends for a bit. She sees me yells my name and then sais that she just got here and was just studying here with her buds, im like cool not a problem. Then i asked her if shed eaten she was like yah, we had a bit of a convo and i was like do u wanna watch a movie tonight. She then replied and said i have to drop of my friend home but i will message you, she never did. I do not no what to make of it, i think im just gonna ignore her from now on, and if she wants to talk she can message me. Anyways feedback would be appreciated

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    now that I re-read your entire situation and updated, she's not interested past more than friends. She's doesn't want it to progress further, so out of friendliness, she responds to your texts and stuff, but deep down, she's doesn't want to comply to your wishes.

    I think this is a done deal, there's no fixing, because she's showing signs of disinterest now. Pushing it further will only result in her avoiding you for good. The only card to play is the "patience" card.. which I highly recommend you not taking... freezeout, then just act as a friend, take the pressure off, maybe she'll see you in another light who knows.

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Yeah thats what i am going to do; only thing that kind of gets me mad is she could have easily said oh i have to study with some friends today maybe some other time instead of just have me waiting there. Almost felt like it was revenge for friday when i bailed instead of waiting for her.

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Quote Originally Posted by Spotnik View Post
    Almost felt like it was revenge for friday when i bailed instead of waiting for her.
    Although I tend to agree with studmuffin's assessment of your situation, you raise an important point here. There are a couple of girls that I see who if I blow them off on one occasion, they automatically reject my next offer to hang out, even though I know they want to see me. However, if she's doing this to you regularly, it's probably a done deal as studmuffin suggests.

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Thats just the thing, last week hung out twice studied together and she showed me all teh signs of interest. Friday when i asked to chill she pulled the gotta go do something with my family card, she took long and i bailed. Monday when i asked again she said yeah after she gets help with an assignment then doesnt show, like i can understand if she doesnt have interest, and I understand if shes replying to messages just out of friendship. What i dont understand is why stand me up and say ur gonna do something and not do it, unless she caught feelings about friday!

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    girls are girls.. they can gain interest real fast or lose interest real fast!

    don't take IOIs like they are there forever and nothing can change her thoughts, because believe me, it's happened to me, you and probably every guy out there.. where we blow it.

    the only thing you could do on top of my previous post is demonstrate higher value and make it seem her actions NEVER phased you AT ALL! .

    good luck.

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    So here is an update on my situation and what ive been realizing and some assumptions i have. So me and this girl have a lot of mutual friends, one of them being her best friend who i think had a crush on me last year, but I use to always just treat her like a little sister. So this friend of hers the "Little sister" has a boyfriend now, but i realize ever since me and her friend started talkin she has been showin me too much interest and she has a boy friend and all. Now here is when it gets weird and one thing i realized, the other day i saw teh chick i like her friend "Little sister" and some other girls studying, so i decided to be casual and say whats up they asked me where i am going and i said home. The "little sister" sais im heading home to i will drop u off, I was like kool, the girl i like then gave her friend a really dirty look. Anyways every time there together the "little sister" and teh girl I like they act pretty weird around me and it feels a little ackward. When the "little sister" is alone and sees me shes a lot more loose if u may and goes out of her way to talk to me, and she shows sign of interest. What i think is going on is the "little sister" is cock blockin me. Im not too sure maybe someone can shed some light my way.

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Here is yet another update on my situation. So today i was chillin at school walkin through the tunnel headin to the library, and teh girl I likes friend "the little sister" saw me asked me where i was goin and i said the library, she then said she would join me, i was like kool. We studied for a bit and more of her friends came and started studying with us, all of em girls. So 3 cute girls and me i felt great; then the girl i liked came and joined us, i didnt say whats up or nothing ignored her. I then started talkin to her friends jokin around havin a great time, and she started tryna grab my attention and get involved in our jokes, but i kept drawing the attention to myself and leaving her out of the convo. One of her friends really got into me and started getting flerty with me, the chick i like kept on tryna bud into the convo but I kept on just ignoring her. I got back to studying, then after a bit i said to teh chick I like so what are u studying for, she said calculus we talked for a bit, and she was like u should come to this party next week, I told her I was busy and would consider it. N e ways after a while i packed my shit and decided to leave, as i was leaving the chick i liked asked me if i was goin home, i was like yeh, she then said well I hope to see u again before the christmas break and if not good luck on ur finals, I said same to u and hi fived her friends; not her and just left. Some feedback on my actions would be greatly appreciated

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    if this was the first time you met these girls and u just singled her out, I'd high-five you myself.. but the fact that after all that happened and you treated her like a d1ck, she'll probably be like "wtf" and done more damage. It's one thing to be confident, and prank her, single her out with jokes, but to ignore her completely is uncalled for. She's going to be nice and say good luck and hope to see you. But really? leaving her out on high-five is a low blow too, it's almost as bad as seeing a friend walking past you and you turned your head to avoid saying hello.... i mean if you gave everyone a hug and her a high-five that'd be better.

    think about it perspectively.

    I like the confidence and your approach, but at your point in the game where there's history already, makes you look like a cocky bastard and she will probably start bitching about it with her friends = you lost all 4 chances. You already didn't have such a great turnout in the past with her, pissing her off won't do you well.. girls talk about all guy stuff.

    just my thoughts, maybe she likes it, but i highly doubt it.. anyone disagree?

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Well i cant change that now, I dont feel like I was being a total dick, I even went out of my way to chat with her at that one point and ask her about her exams. She then started telling her friends about thsi story when I saved her and helped her out on this drunken night; I said I couldnt remember the night. I like her and try to freeze her out and show her tough love. I guess I will just see, im leavin for the christmas holidays so a month a way from her and not seeing each other might be good.


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