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    Spotnik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I have a situation

    There is this girl I know that i am attracted to, and I know she is attracted to me to, we have been hanging out in the library lately studying. Yesterday we where suppose to meet up and study but she told me that she is going to a festival with her family at 3. I waited at the library till 10pm studying then a couple of buddies messaged me asking me to come out with them. Since i got no word from the chick i decided to baile. An hour later she messages me saying that she was sorry just got to the library and is going to be here till midnight. I didnt see the message till i got home about 1 30 am, i replied and said "I bailed around 10, went and met up with some friends, how was teh festival?" she didnt reply its been a day, even tho i no she saw my message, so i was considering giving it a few more days and messaging her again sayin "isnt it a little early for the silet treatment" anwyays what are your opinions on this sitaution

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    please guys some advice and opinions on this situation

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    I think you have total rights to hang out with your buddies and her arriving late and not seeing you = you demonstrated higher value, you have a life than just waiting at a library for her. She may be used to complete attention, so this is different. Her sense should come back soon!

    I think you should message her again Monday (few days from now) and say, "I'm going to be at the library at 3pm, come with coffee!" .. this message shows you are in control, you ignored she may be mad, and that you aren't asking her to studying, you are TELLING her to. shows you have control, after studying maybe make it up indirectly by grabbing dinner or something casual to let her know you better and enjoy your presence..

    studying is a great way to start to know someone, but to truly increase attraction, you two need to do things more than education stuff...

    hope this helps!

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Thanks this really helped

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    If anyone has anymore tips or opinions on how they would deal with a situation like this, please give your 2 cents, I am but a student trying to learn the wiser ways!

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Studmuffin's advice is on the money!

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    Spotnik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I have a situation

    So say she ends up bailing on me if i ask her to study again on monday, then what should I just ignore her?

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    freezeout for a week, or forget her.

    freezeout, because it just means there's tension and she's overreacting. if you decide to forget about her, it'd be best since you probably don't want one that's time demanding and throw a hissy fit because you decided to do what makes you happy.

    if you talk to her nicely and ask whats up or say you're sorry = you'll lose her .. DO NOT DO THIS!

    look like you are in control of the situation. Girls want and need to know you can take the lead in even small situations like this.. it could be a sh1t test.

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    Spotnik is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Thats interesting, funny part a couple of weeks back we went clubbing together, and i kind of gave her her space i did my thing with my friends and stuff, then her ex-boyfriend showed up she flipped out and started going crazy and stuff, so i grabbed her to leave with me instead of staying there with him, she was like "no i gotta talk to him." I'm like fine do ur thing so i just left. She messages me a week later saying she is sorry and how she wont drink again and that she wanted me to go out with her that night, I told sorry i got work to do. I no she is attracted to me when ever we study together she plays with her hair in ways to grab my attention, if i stop talkin she tries to reinitiate conversation, and she looks deep into my eyes when we talk. I know i have some wholes in my game where i tend to slip cuz im just overwhelmed with school right now and cant be on my A game, but at the same time I like this chick dont want this one to slip away!

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    Default Re: I have a situation

    Hey dude, studm has given the best advice ur prob gonna get. I don't think there's nothing to add to that.


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