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    quix034 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    I went to the strip club for the first time last night and I had read on these forums some of the stripper game posts. Well I employed those tactics and they lead to a phone close for coffee with one of the dancers. I have yet to text her as it has only been about a day (I'm not going to text her for about another day) and I feel like I'm over my head here.

    So, my question is very simple. How do I push the relationship forward in this case. It is very daunting to me and I'm worried that I should handle the first date in a different way then with other girls because of her profession. So, any help would be appreciated regarding how to keep conversation moving in the right direction and what type of kino should be used with a dancer outside of the strip club.

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    Just treat her like a normal girl. And, do NOT talk about her job. Anything else but that. Pretend she's just some normal girl from uni or something, not a dancer. That'd be my advice.

    Be careful though. These girls can be... well flaky and golddiggers. Make sure you don't get attached...

    Good luck!


    Quote Originally Posted by quix034 View Post
    I went to the strip club for the first time last night and I had read on these forums some of the stripper game posts. Well I employed those tactics and they lead to a phone close for coffee with one of the dancers. I have yet to text her as it has only been about a day (I'm not going to text her for about another day) and I feel like I'm over my head here.

    So, my question is very simple. How do I push the relationship forward in this case. It is very daunting to me and I'm worried that I should handle the first date in a different way then with other girls because of her profession. So, any help would be appreciated regarding how to keep conversation moving in the right direction and what type of kino should be used with a dancer outside of the strip club.

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    You're worrying about the wrong things.

    1. You don't even know the number is good.
    2. She hasn't made definite plans with you, yet.
    3. Do you have a plan for you two's first date?


    As far as statistical failures, you've already accomplished the hardest part (assuming the number is good and only referring to the initial pickup and date acquiescence).

    I will mirror the previous poster:
    Treat her like any other woman you take on a successful first date. Watch for her to try to get you to finance things for her.

    Some women can't turn off their exotic dancer mindset. Thesee typically have men who pay their rent, groceries, utilities, and receive gifts of money outside the club setting. Yes, these can cause you major issues.

    1. They usually aren't sleeping with the men who pay these things. If they are, it's not regularly.
    2. The men who are paying will often have a cult following of her and be very possessive.
    3. Well, there's a bunch more....

    I've dated one of these women. That's a whole new world. If you have questions; feel free to ask.

    I've also dated exotic dancers who were regular women who happened to dance for a lot of money. These are the keepers for obvious reasons.

    Here's a hint: Don't refer to her or her job as a "stripper" or "stripping".

    Read my posts about exotic dancers:
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...html#post27377

    and

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...-stripper.html


    Now, ask away.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    Yet another one who comes in, asks a question, checks back thirty minutes later, and doesn't return.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    Man i got a much more serious problem i kind of got feelings for a girl not just selling dances ....you now what i mean ....

    It just happened and it.'s a absolutly new situation...
    I try to treat her like a regular girl...

    If you have any ideas please let me know....

    I went the with a friend ...i was tried and not in the mood But ended up just talking with a girl for quite a while we ended up exchanging names to geht in contact via facebook.....

    Happened saturday ....wrote her STOP ! Today.....

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    Quote Originally Posted by Rockstar View Post
    Man i got a much more serious problem i kind of got feelings for a girl not just selling dances ....you now what i mean ....

    It just happened and it.'s a absolutly new situation...
    I try to treat her like a regular girl...

    If you have any ideas please let me know....

    I went the with a friend ...i was tried and not in the mood But ended up just talking with a girl for quite a while we ended up exchanging names to geht in contact via facebook.....

    Happened saturday ....wrote her STOP ! Today.....
    They are just women let them have zero power over you. Find her weakness and use to rip down the idol of her in your mind.

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    Well it's not that she is my idol but she does not reply I wanted to use this opener
    Me: Stop!
    HB: Stop what?
    Me: Stop smiling and thinking about me. See, you're doing it. .right. . . now.
    HB: Oh, you caught me!

    It even made me smile but I got no reply.....

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    Default Re: So I got a dancer's number and now need help...

    So what happened did you use it?
    What was the out come?

    The stop opener does work but your mark must be interested in you slightly for it to work(I presume).


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