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    alomar12 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Stole a girl from her bf, then she went back to him...

    So here is the story...

    I was hooking up with a girl at my law school, and she had a BF (also at my school), he found out, they broke up, got back together, broke up, got back together etc. until she finally ended it for what I thought was the last time.

    She corners me at school, tells me that I am the one she wants to be with, that she is through being dishonest to people, wants to be in a healthy relationship (with me). She also said that she wanted to work on being friends with her now ex-BF. I said cool, and we agreed to start dating on the sly.

    We had been 'dating' for a month, and she became distant, the exact opposite of what she had been before. I now know that it's because I gave up power, decision making, and the willingness to walk away. But in any event, I found out that she went to his family's house for thanksgiving, then when they got back, she spent the night at his house.

    I confronted her, she said she jumped into a relationship with me too soon, and that she still had unresolved feelings for her ex that she was trying to work out (He's a punk who continues to beg her to get back with him, despite her cheating). I told her that I don't take a backseat to anyone, and that we were done, but that I still wanted to be friends with her. She asked me for a second chance, I said no. My problem is that I am still in love with her, and want her back, but want her to end it with her BF for good. It's been 3 days, and I've been doing non-contact, she'll email me and I respond with emails that are polite but short and don't require a response from her. I give her a head nod when I see her on campus, but nothing more.

    Will this work? How long should I do the NC? Won't it just push her into her ex-BF's arms? What else can I do?

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    Endrew is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Stole a girl from her bf, then she went back to him...

    First of all I'm not PUA but I have some experiance in actually very simliar situation...
    So my advice would be first of all think about your actual feelings. I mean if she's forthy to think about? Or it was just a short attraction and now you want her only because you dont have her. Because this shit is very common and makes things messy.
    So anyway if you're sure that you love her don't wait too long.. In my situation I pushed her into other guy... When I noticed I tried to get her back but that bitch actually fucked random dude downstares while I was hearing every whispering and stuff..... It's good that I was able to control myself cuz I actually was thinking about killing that dude and almost did that...
    So anyway my advice in short you can tease her a bit but don't overdue it.. PUA stuff will only ruin your relationships be yourself if she realy likes you it will work out if no, fuck her that bitch dont worth even thinking about her. Good luck hope it helps.

    P.S. That shit about wanting something that you dont have can be her case too.


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