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    Default PUA Mindset vs. PUA Skill base

    Fellas, this is an important question that I would hope to get answered...

    I was thinking about the whole usage of mindsets instead of skills to keep your game flowing. Primarily these mindsets adjust your inner self and create an inner confidence which we all know is better than fake outer confidence.

    However, what happens when your mindset is shifted by a tragic event or a minor bout of sadness and you suddenly adopt a new mindset? On top of that, you haven't trained your skills enough to deal with being at your worst.

    My question is basically, is it better to train your skills (conversation, text game, openers.etc) or should you focus mainly on adopting the mindset that will attract women? (And what should come first in your training to become a PUA?)

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    P.s I ask this, because a few days ago I had a bout of sadness over the toughness of this all, but I snapped out of that. However, I adopted a new mindset for that short period of time and had no game whatsoever.
    Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.

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    Default Re: PUA Mindset vs. PUA Skill base

    You need to do the best you can with what you got

    I've been in "insecure slumps" where the best i can really connect with are 7s, so work on talking to them; even date a few (just make sure u run the non-exclusive MLTR gambit http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...exclusive.html), your confidence will build back up once you see your own abilities and you don't need validation from any particular woman
    It will help you find the girl or girls you really want to be with

    Basically, try to work on both just don't stop practicing or flirting
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: PUA Mindset vs. PUA Skill base

    Cheers Red Baron,

    You write some very thoughtful and decent replies. I think the problem at the moment, is there is too much conflicting advice and it boils down to which best suits you. I guess i'm at a stage where i'm trying to figure out what style I am going to be better at using.

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    Default Re: PUA Mindset vs. PUA Skill base

    I know what u mean on the styles,
    To be honest I use very little actual material, I hate most openers, what I got out of the game was remaining confident, teasig them in general, not buying drinks not taking their shit tests, etc

    I still open with hey what's up, unless I have a situational opener

    You can work with what feels right, but you must practice
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    Default Re: PUA Mindset vs. PUA Skill base

    I think the key is understanding why they suggest the routines. It is a way to develop the right energy level, be able to keep a natural conversation going, to be confident and portray you are the Alpha male, and remain talkative.

    Its like the phrase "a squeaky wheel gets the grease."


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