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    Default Re: PU CO-WORKERS

    I was txting and teasing her last night.
    Me: They must be confusing u for the black sarah palin....u look better without glasses tho just less smarter
    HB8: lol thanks...just about everyone has told me that...n no i think it just seems like i'm with pple a lot

    Then i tried to use the line u gave me xavier with a little twist lol

    Me: lol im gonna start using books to lure girls like u into my apartment...whats ur fav book so i kno which to use?
    HB8: lol i'm not quite sure
    Me: then i'll just tell u where to meet me at....dinner on old country road it'd be a waste not to sync our common interest...as friends of course

    she hasnt texted back since lol this shits not even funny.
    I've been using some lines and been negging and twisting certain things so they seem more sexual on other girls and they seem to be working.
    tell me what i did wrong and how i can do it better.

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    Default Re: PU CO-WORKERS

    brooooooooooooooo "u look better without glasses but less smart"
    are u insane?! u disqualify looks and qualify attitude it's upside down it should be u're smarter she's hotter
    but i'm surprised the rest was good u're reading more, and u're starting to get the feel of it thats good but u shouldn't have said as friends and u should have teased her about not liking books for a while and she didn't imply she wanted to come over or see u, if she was very into u she would have said something like
    'i'm not quit sure why not use candy instead'
    u feel me?
    what i suggest is don't talk to her about not responding, when u see her say hi with a big friendly smile on u're face like nothing happened, kepp teasing her that way she'll think that u're like that, u're flirty by nature.
    Keep acting like that and even if it doesn't happen between u two u'll have learned from u're mistakes and think of her as a stepping stone from something greater

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    Default Re: PU CO-WORKERS

    thanks man. I do think i'm getting a little better day by day. I've been talking to this one girl for mad long and she got at me first for the first time today lol this forum is rlly helping quick but it takes lots of reading.
    And yeah i was thinking about doing the same thing when i see her again just act like I was never ignored lol which is kinda sad but hey
    And I don't really get it. You said I should disqualify her look and qualify her attitude is that what you mean?

    I always appreciate the help.

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    yes and i'll tell u why:
    where does a woman's confidence come from? her looks, guys staring, bf's telling her she's hot anything like that
    but they really want guys to like them for who they are that's true when they say it
    when u disqualify her looks u're beeing different normally no one's gonna walk up to her and disqualify her looks; cuz they're too shy or it's impolite or u don't say that too girls. U're negging and teasing which is acceptable cuz u're not really telling her straight up u're ugly and u're not beeing impolite it's a joke.then she'll feel like 'she has to proove her self to u'.
    u're qualifying her attitude her personality which is what she really wants from a guy to like her for her

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    wow that makes a lotta sence...Are you from NY lol.

    I have a date with this one girl that has a bf. I wanna try to land a kiss in order to keep chasing her because I don't wanna spend money on dates that will not go anywhere.

    How do u think I should go about getting that kiss Xavier and I wanna kino a little but I don't know how to go about it either since we'll be sitting down? and I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't sit accross from her? What do u think? any pointers? or something that you'd like me to try? I'm all about improving my game i don't care about the outcome

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    Default Re: PU CO-WORKERS

    bro i wish u would give more to work with:
    -is it a date date or a work date, study date?
    -why did she accept to go out with u if she has a bf?did u bf destroy?
    -how did u meet?
    -day date? night date?
    -did u direct approach or not?
    but i would like u to build comfort on the whole date, keep the convo interesting and make her talk about herself, run the cube on her then if u feel she's getting more interested start looking at her lips that will get kissing into her head, talk more slowly this will get the sexual tension going then touch her hand slowly and keep u're hand on hers for about 10 secs if she doesn't seem bothered that is great for u. when u are in front of the place grab her hand fermly push her to u put u're hand on her hip and kiss her

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    bro i wish u would give more to work with:
    -is it a date date or a work date, study date?
    met her at a party so it a regular date the second one tho
    -why did she accept to go out with u if she has a bf?did u bf destroy?
    I feel like shes kinda using me as like a reserve cause it seems like she still has strong feelings for her bf...i flirt and talk sexual with her over the phone but she doesnt talk sexual back
    -how did u meet?
    at a party
    -day date? night date? its a night date around 7 8
    -did u direct approach or not?
    i direct approached at the party and got her number.

    It seems like she might leave her bf if I am good enough to seduce her.

    I think you're a genius compared to me I never thought of all this sh1t u just told me to try but i definetely will. What questions should i ask her to make her talk about herself?

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    first off i'm a genius periode. if she doesn't talk back sexually or doesn't flirt back thats a bad sign bro maybe u didn't dhv well enough maybe there isn't much attraction there as for the conversation it's not what u ask it's about knowing the art of conversation read this:
    1. Always be aware of your surroundings!
    Some of the best conversation starters are based on what's going on around you. Maybe something funny happened, maybe there's a guy that looks like Tom Hanks. Maybe the girl dropped her cell phone in water. Whatever is going on around you, learn to use it to your advantage.

    Ways to practice this: When you go out, look for things happening to people or in your surroundings. Then, approach anyone (guy or girl) and talk to him or her about it. Make it seem smooth and if you can, funny. Then, let that lead into more conversation. This is probably the best way to do a cold approach IMO.

    2. Don't ask random questions!
    This isn't 20 questions. Don't ask a girl a question and then proceed by asking her a totally unrelated question when she answers. Keep the questions related to her answer. Base what you say off of her response. DON'T PLAN OUT WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO SAY NEXT. Go with the flow.

    Guy: Do you live around here?
    Girl: I actually live about 20 min away in __
    Guy: Really? I hear they listen to quite a bit of rap in __ (just an example)
    Girl: Yeah they do! I'm not too big on rap though. I prefer acoustic bands like John Mayer or Dave Matthews
    Guy: Dave was just up at the Gorge for a concert last week. Did you see the concert?
    Girl: I really wanted to go but got stuck working the whole weekend
    Guy: etc etc

    Instead of

    Guy: Do you live around here?
    Girl: I actually live about 20 min away in __
    Guy: Cool. What kind of music do you listen to?
    Girl: My favorite would have to be any acoustic bands
    Guy: Did you go to the Dave Matthews Concert?
    Girl: No, I got stuck working
    Guy: Where do you work?

    You see the difference? The first conversation is going step-by-step off of what she is saying. It's smooth and comfortable. She doesn't even realize you're changing the subject because it's done so smoothly. The second conversation is terrible. It's rough and she's practically being interrogated.

    3. Keep the Conversations Positive
    There's nothing people hate more than a negative person. You know the type: Those people that complain and argue about EVERYTHING. Always try to avoid anything negative. Stuff like

    "This food sucks."
    "Wtf is with this line?" (You could make a funny comment about the line, but don't complain about it)
    "I hate.."

    Girls don't want to hear your negative talk. It brings them down and gets annoying. Keep things positive. That doesn't mean to talk like, "Oh it's a splendid day! The sun is radiating and the birds are chirping a beautiful tune in the gentle breeze". But avoid being negative. NEVER whine or complain and don't argue.


    4. Understand people have opinions where there is no right or wrong
    I've met so many people who always have to argue with people's opinions. That's just their way of thinking. Don't agree with a girl just for the sake of agreeing. If you have a difference of opinion, and think you can back it up, then let her know you disagree, but do it in an adult-like manner. Don't insult her way of thinking. Just like you, she probably has reasoning for her opinion. You could ask her what her reasoning is behind that. Throw in your point of view, but acknowledge her points.

    5. Nouning

    This is a technique I read about that will help those of you who have trouble with conversation. You'll be able to hold a conversation without a problem. It could start with the simplest of questions like, "What did you do today?" You'll learn to do this with practice without even thinking about it, but for now, here's how you do it. (this is taken from another post)
    quote:

    You: So what do you do with yourself?

    Her: Oh, Im in Trinity College in Dublin studying Law.

    Take the nouns out of this reply... (Noun: a person place or thing!)

    3 Nouns in her reply:

    1- Trinity College
    2- Dublin
    3- Law

    Pick any of these and ask her a question about it! Let's say you pick 'Dublin':

    You: Dublin eh? So what do ya think of the place?

    OR

    You: So what's the nightlife like up there?

    Or if you chose 'Law':

    You: So what made you choose to do Law? Is it tough?

    Then she'll answer with something like:

    Her: (In regard to 'Dublin' nightlife) Yeah the nightlife's excellent, especially Club Spirit. Although it can be pretty rough after the clubs close, especially in Grafton Street!

    Now repeat the process, taking out the nouns and asking her questions about them.

    Nouns in the previous answer: Club Spirit, Grafton Street.

    Make sense? This is an easy way to keep the conversation flowing from what she just told you. I'd suggest you go out to coffee with a friend that you don't know very well and see if you can keep the conversation going using this technique.

    6. Use Open-Ended Questions
    Open-ended questions are questions that require more than a yes or no answer, and they easily lead to more conversation. Examples:

    What are you studying?
    What did you do today?

    How was...?
    What are your thoughts on...?
    What's your stance on...? (to get her opinion on something)
    What do you like about...?
    What do you think about...?

    7. Men want facts; women want feelings
    This of course is a generalization that I read somewhere: Men like to cut to the facts. They don't like all the small talk and stuff in between. Men organize thoughts in their head and then say what needs to be said. Women use talking as a means to organize their thoughts.

    Women also like to talk about feelings and how something makes them feel. The feelings associated with things. Have you ever talked to a girl for months, but the conversations were just based on facts, so you never really got to know the girl? What you want to do is take any facts she gives you, and dig deeper to get to feelings.

    Girl: I really like Brad Pitt.
    Guy: What is it about him that you like?
    Girl: Well he's got a great sense of style. He pulls off different looks and they all work for him. He seems really confident and...

    You want to get her to expand on her original thought. Let her talk but make sure you're controlling where the conversation is going. Never let the conversation go out of your control!

    8. Listen to Her!
    I'm sure you've all heard girls complain about guys that don't listen. If you ask the girl the proper questions and just sit back and listen, she'll tell you exactly how to seduce her. She'll tell you what she looks for, what she likes, and what she doesn't like. You guide the conversation then use this so you know what she wants to hear and how she wants to hear it. If any of you have ever done sales, you'll know what I'm talking about. Always let the customer talk first and they'll tell you what they want to hear.


    Girls like guys who can keep them interested. Try to keep the conversation different. Take risks. Talk to her about stuff other guys usually wouldn't; you'll stick in her mind. Watch the news so you know what's going on in the world. You can use that to get opinions out of her if you need something to talk about.

    One more technique, which is a little more advanced, is using statements instead of questions. This isn't to carry a conversation, it's just a technique you can use to change things up a bit and display a lot of confidence.

    Are you tired of meeting weird guys?
    => You must be tired of meeting weird guys.

    What school do you go to?
    => So tell me what school you're from

    How was your day?
    => Tell me about your day

    They usually start with

    "So...", "Then..."
    "You must..."
    "You could..."
    "It must be..."

    Statements they take a position and a risk. If you say, "I prefer dogs", you're taking a risk. She might prefer cats. Saying, "I'm not interested in a long term relationship right now" is taking a risk.

    Making these statements shows her your courage and confidence instead of being a guy who sits back and asks safe questions. It also gives you more control because you're telling her to tell you something, not asking her nicely (but stating it isn't rude either).

    You don't need Q-Cards to keep a conversation going. Just go with what she says. It's as easy as that.
    Plus try making mental check notes if she says she likes to work out later on in the conversation say out of the blue i love bike riding or running or any sort of exercise it will get the conversation going again and she'll think that u have things in common.
    P.S: u're in new york what do u do there? PM me
    Last edited by xavier; 12-11-2011 at 01:33 AM.


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