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    MyScreennameRocks is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl calls me by feminine version of my name

    name.

    I apologize for the length but please bear with me. Okay, I was in a children's home in my teens, I seriously crushed on a girl there who didn't know I exist.

    Fast forward 23 years later, I made a FaceBook group for people who'd been in that children's home (it was closed down a few years back). I looked up the girl, found her, added her to my FB and the group as well.

    In our first conversation, she responded to my compliment on her looks (i know, mistake) that "being pretty isn't getting me laid". She was 7 months pregnant at the time and remarked how it's "making her hormones go crazy".

    She asked if I wanted to "kick it" that night so I said yes. I met her at her place, we went for drinks at a local bar. Had a really good time catching up, she wasn't responsive to my touches though. As I drove her back, she asked if I was okay to drive home, I stated that I wasn't (the truth). I asked if I'd be able to crash on her couch or something and she says no, I barely know you, I don't trust anyone, yaddah yaddah. SO I tell her I'll just chill in Denny's or something drinking coffee til I can make the one hour trip home safely.

    Afterwards, she begins referring to me as "Danielle" rather than "Daniel" in all of her FB posts directed at me. ABout 7 or 8 times. Also, I uploaded a new pic and she commented I looked "creepy" in it. I wanted to call her out for posting such a thing publicly where family and friends could see but just deleted the comment instead.

    So, she had asked me two weeks later if I'd go see her friend's band play. I said yes, then wound up mixing the day up and scheduling a date for the same night. When the day eventually came she called to ask if I was going, I said no as I had plans, she accused me of lying and making up the "date," she told me forget it don't go...I'm like how can I go, I have plans already lol. We had a big falling out and she wound up blocking me.

    Can anyone explain any of this to me? No one I know has a clue.

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    Default Re: Girl calls me by feminine version of my

    I can shed light on this. She is prego & neurotic. She did you a favor for sure.

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    Default Re: Girl calls me by feminine version of my name

    Agreed that I dodged a bullet.

    But was she sh1t testing me by calling me 'danielle'?

    I had thought to counter her by saying,

    "The way you keep calling me 'Danielle' reminds me of when I was in elementary school, all the girls that liked me would always say that I had 'cooties' or whatever."

    This way I let her know that I "know" she's into me, and it is also an indirect way of telling her she's acting childish.

    What do you guys think of this?

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    Default Re: Girl calls me by feminine version of my name

    Never try to throw reason and logic into a homogeneous mess of hormones, insecurity, and selfishness. I don't know what I would say to that myself though. It just seems she wants you to feel as bad about yourself as she does about herself. I am willing to put $5 paypal on the fact that sometime, in the future, you will be unblocked and then added back to her list; probably within the next 3 months.


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