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    TooFreshTooClean is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Dies Out after the Direct opener

    Ok, my situation is I go out about twice per week with the goal of getting better at pick up. Right now I'm working on direct game, and I'm saying stuff like "hi... you look cute, what's your name" and it's working pretty well when I make sure to smile and use good body language.

    My problem is that after that, I'll usually ask a few normal questions like what she's interested in, who she's with... and then the conversation stalls.

    I don't want to use any really gimmicky techniques but I'm interested in what you guys have to say about what I can do to make sure the conversation keeps going and she's engaged in it.

    Thanks so much!

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    Default Re: Dies Out after the Direct opener

    Please allow me to chime in here: My problem is that after that, I'll usually ask a few normal questions like what she's interested in, who she's with... and then the conversation stalls.

    You have already identified the problem. You approach, you put it all out there and you have no where is to take it. Maybe if you want to avoid gimmicky techniques, perhaps some fun games to play in night game such as slap, marry, kill or something, anything really that is interesting and fun to convey high value. Great conversational threads work, have some fun chick bait topics ready to fire off.

    When I was a newbie I kept about ten conversational threads in my phone and if I started to run dry, I would glance at them and keep rolling on topics like maury povich, facebook, men vs women etc.

    Good luck, hope this helps.

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    Default Re: Dies Out after the Direct opener

    If you want her to be interested in the convo, she has to feel that you have value for her, otherwise it wont happen. So demonstrate higher value right away then you'll be able to talk about whatever.


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