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    Indy27 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Post Help with this please guys!

    Hey guys can you get so deep with a girl on the first meeting that she is scared you know her too well?

    Weird question but I approached this super hot girl and we talked for about an our in a bar/club and then after a few IOIs I probed deeper into what makes her tick. In the end she told me very personal things like that she is scared to fall in love as she falls so deep amongst other things.

    So my question is is this always a good thing to build this sort of depth to the conversation to help connection for the next meet up or can it scare a girl into thinking you know her too much that she is scared of you?

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    Default Re: Help with this please guys!

    no, depends on the nature of the conversation and how things were. but getting deep so fast could mean you are becoming her trusted close friend and nothing more.

    what do you want out of this.. if you want a relationship, it's good to see she trusts you and all, but isn't it a little too fast? But then she tells you she's afraid to fall in love, maybe implying she's not ready for anything, so move on. be there for me as a friend.

    IOIs are always displayed in every situation and it sometimes is misread, there's IOIs in normal friendships. I feel that you have built good rapport, but failed to build interest.

    I could be wrong, there's a lack of detail.

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    Default Re: Help with this please guys!

    Thanks man I appreciate the feedback. I totally get what you mean.

    I should prob elaborate on what happened. Basically it was a bikini bar and she was a dancer. She approaches me to offer her services. I cut through all her usual topics she discusses with 'customers.' Instead I tried busting on her and then honestly trying to get learn about her. I admit I did get a dance off of her due to the fact that I was actually there with a friend and we were just up for some fun. During the dance though is when I would tell her to stop and I would cold read her and then we played some little Kino games. Threw in a few jokes for good measure and basically tried to get the real her on show. (nb this is one of my passions to explore womens minds so I believe this would have seemed very congruent and not contrived) and at the end of it as she left to go home she suddenly turns round and declared to me that she isnt a stripper lol. I told her I respected her for having boundaries (I never asked or hinted at her stripping). In the moment it felt like she cared what I thought of her. Anyway we hugged and then I asked her what shes doing in 1 weeks time. She said nothing so I told her I want her to come out with me so give me your number and she agreed and went and wrote it down.

    Tbh I could be being very naive as she is a dancer and needs to act a certain way and I also paid for a dance but I was enjoying the whole thing. However, Im pretty sure the number is solid? I checked it on google and it does exist and is registered to the town she says she lives so....

    Anyway great to here your feedback man.

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    Default Re: Help with this please guys!

    now I can totally relate....

    stripper are in the industry of emotional labour, they bullshit a lot and they pretend to get personal to soak you out of your own money.

    Here's my experience and this is why i never go for strippers/dancers/service girls... I went to a dancer bar and this girl sat beside me and started touching me, talking with me, telling me a lot of stories, tells me where she lives, ex-bf problems .. (to sum it up, nice and personal). I go for the number close and get it, i didnt go for a dance. I text her the next day and flirted around and things seemed great, i asked her out to dinner, and she popped the " I'm sorry, I don't go out with people i meet at that job"

    it's in their nature to pretend to take care of you and get personal, but it's all for a price. Not all dancers are like that, but they are in that industry to make money, not meet guys. Especially if they are good looking, they would rather meet one elsewhere.

    I'm glad you had a good time, and I'd suggest working on a clubbing night game or somehting, it'll probably be more useful in the future.


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