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    Default How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man?

    Hello!

    Being a huge fan of the 3 second rule and Direct Approach, I would like to know how I could best approach a beautiful girl at the moment when she's with another man.

    I would greatly appreciate it if you could share with me any of your successes and explain to me how exactly you did.

    In advance thanks a lot.

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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    Talk to the guy first, approach like you're already old friends. You have to be sociable, ask them what they're celebrating, etc. Once youve gotten in with him you can begin more formally gaming the girl
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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    I'm not much of an expert when it comes to this. I don't like stealing girls from guys, mostly because it's difficult for most and I personally think it's kinda a douche move. Bros before hoes. But I have done it before. You should try to get some nonverbal communication going, it's hard to lie with body language. Send IOI if one is received then approach. Walk up and say something you would say to a girl you already know. This gives the guy a sense that you already know her, so he might give you sometime to tall to her without getting in your way thinking you two are friends. But personally if someone tried hitting on my girl right in front of me I'd tell him to F off. Just be careful who to try it on cuz you could get start a fight. Most of the time it causes more drama than it's worth.
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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    Quote Originally Posted by 3_sec_seducer View Post
    Hello!

    Being a huge fan of the 3 second rule and Direct Approach, I would like to know how I could best approach a beautiful girl at the moment when she's with another man.

    I would greatly appreciate it if you could share with me any of your successes and explain to me how exactly you did.

    In advance thanks a lot.

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    This is so easy. Here are two methods that have worked well. If the guy is cool introduce yourself to him, then introduce yourself to the girl and ask "how do you guys know each other" She will define their relationship to you. DO NOT ASK HIM, if he is an orbiter he will paly the game. She will tell you everything that you need to know with her response and put him in his place at the same time. .It's a painless way to figure the situation out

    Now if you have figured the guy is an orbiter, or he's trying to freeze you out, ask "How long have you guys been a couple?" Most of the time she will blow him up, "Oh no, we are just old friends" He will shut down the rest of the night. Sometimes on the heels of defeat he will help you game the girl in an attempt to play it cool.

    I disagree with immortal technique, there is nothing wrong with doing a little information gathering. Some of my best sets ever have been mixed set pick ups.

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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    This is so easy. Here are two methods that have worked well. If the guy is cool introduce yourself to him, then introduce yourself to the girl and ask "how do you guys know each other" She will define their relationship to you. DO NOT ASK HIM, if he is an orbiter he will paly the game. She will tell you everything that you need to know with her response and put him in his place at the same time. .It's a painless way to figure the situation out

    Now if you have figured the guy is an orbiter, or he's trying to freeze you out, ask "How long have you guys been a couple?" Most of the time she will blow him up, "Oh no, we are just old friends" He will shut down the rest of the night. Sometimes on the heels of defeat he will help you game the girl in an attempt to play it cool.

    I disagree with immortal technique, there is nothing wrong with doing a little information gathering. Some of my best sets ever have been mixed set pick ups.
    hey Suave Kino, Thanks a lot for your answer as well as encouragement by telling me it's achievable from your experience.

    A couple of more questions:

    1) When you call a guy an "orbiter," what exactly do you mean by the "orbiter"?

    2) In terms of directly approaching to that girl who's accompanied by a guy in the situations when I walk towards and randomly meet them on the street or let's say, they and I are about to walk past one another as they are entering the shop while I'm getting out of the same shop, how would you apply or adapt your approach in these specific situations?

    What would you say about the idea of me approaching the girl in the above mentioned situations by saying to her something down the lines: "Hi! I know you"? Or, you would do it differently?

    By the way, I'm very glad that you've shared the situation when the girl blows up the guy in his attempt to kind of freeze me out. Once something very similar happened to me as well when I approached a girl waiting for the night bus while she was deliberately keeping her distance from a half-drunken guy (allegedly her boyfriend) who was aggressively shouting at her all the time. I then approached her and asked her if she knew him and she said "yes." After girl and I shared a short chat, the guy aggressively and violently approached me and threatened me that he was going to punch me if I don't stop talking to her. The girl was at that moment a slightly away from the guy and me and she was able to hear our conversation.
    I calmly kept standing up where I was and said to him something down the lines that the girl wanted to talk to me and we enjoyed our chat and also let him know that I wasn't going to go anywhere because I was waiting for the bus.
    When he was about to hit me, the girl shouted out at him: "Leave him alone! We know each other from our neighbourhood." After that, the guy straightaway started apologizing to me. Anyway, unfortunately as the girl was then standing slightly aside and the guy was going to go back to her, I didn't have the real kind of opportunity to speak with her any longer.

    Just out of interest, if you came across a beautiful girl who was obviously being pestered or harrassed by a guy somewhere on the street and the guy was physically much stronger than you, what would you do in order to rescue the girl and naturally win her over?

    Suave Kino, as I've realized that you have a huge field experience approaching and dating women and also that your outgoing and adventurous character very much resonates with mine, I would be glad if we could meet up and go to pick up girls sometime together. Just out of curiosity, what pickup artists did you learn from the most? You can also send me a private message if you like.

    By the way, one of my main problems at the moment is not knowing exactly how to best start and then keep a conversation going where I would like to switch that initial introduction chat into a sexual chat as quickly as possible (whether through some good sex banters or something similar that works best for you) in a specific situation where I'm randomly meeting a girl in the crowded bus where she's sitting while I am forced to stand next to her as there're no available seats.

    In addition to this one, I'd also like to ask you the same question about successfully switching the intro chat into a sex chat when directly approaching a girl on the street whether she is accompanied by another man or not.

    In advance many many Thanks!!!

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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    An orbiter is like a guy she keeps around to stop other guys from hitting on her. But she isn't dating him or really into him though. But don't just say "Hi, I know you." cuz she could think no I don't know you. Try more along the lines of "Hey, its been awhile, how are you?" or something like that. Then she might think you two have meet but she forgot you or something, or she will be polite since she thinks you have mistaken her for someone else and you aren't just hitting on her. Then if she says "I think you have the wrong girl." Use that opportunity to introduce yourself. "Oh! I sorry you look so much like her and even have her great sense of fashion." or something like that if she is actually dressed up and not in sweatpants.
    " My name is ...." "I am ..." "It's nice to meet you."
    If she doesn't, you should realize she isn't your old friend and tell her you though she was someone else and then introduce yourself.

    You should be subtle with the sex topic, to find out if she is comfortable discussing it first. Use some innuendo or a sex joke while exchanging jokes, then gauge her response. If she doesn't get too nervous or uncomfortable then continue talking about sex and building some sexual tension. Don't boast though a lot of girl hate this, but do convey you are comfortable with your sexuality, and confident in your abilities. But if she doesn't like it then back down or she'll think you're a creep.
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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    If you see a guy harassing a woman or physically hitting her, you should PUT THAT MOTHERfarkER IN THE DIRT! Even if he is stronger than you, he isn't going to kill you. I'm guessing your not in the projects. And you're going to distract him long enough for her to get help, even if you are weaker don't be a wuss. Any well placed hit to a vital area, no matter how big you are, is going to take him down. Kick in his knee cap, or hit his groan. This isn't a boxing match it's a street fight there's no rules, hell pull his hair if you really have too. If you are smaller you are going to want to keep a distance, go in for some hits, and then put distance between you. You don't want to let him be able to take you to the ground because that's where his size plays the greatest advantage over you. If he quite larger he will try to use his weight to bring down. But you need to be able to move to the side, your lighter so you move quicker than him. You look very courageous and chivalrous and this could be very attractive to her and any woman watching this. Don't worry about getting hurt or beat up in front of someone because you are doing a very good thing.
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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    Quote Originally Posted by 3_sec_seducer View Post
    hey Suave Kino, Thanks a lot for your answer as well as encouragement by telling me it's achievable from your experience.

    A couple of more questions:

    1) When you call a guy an "orbiter," what exactly do you mean by the "orbiter"?

    Immortal Technique nailed it.

    2) In terms of directly approaching to that girl who's accompanied by a guy in the situations when I walk towards and randomly meet them on the street or let's say, they and I are about to walk past one another as they are entering the shop while I'm getting out of the same shop, how would you apply or adapt your approach in these specific situations?

    What would you say about the idea of me approaching the girl in the above mentioned situations by saying to her something down the lines: "Hi! I know you"? Or, you would do it differently?

    Just out of interest, if you came across a beautiful girl who was obviously being pestered or harrassed by a guy somewhere on the street and the guy was physically much stronger than you, what would you do in order to rescue the girl and naturally win her over?

    Remember, diplomats tule the world, not barbarians. The key here is brain over brawn. Usually, drunks especially are easily distracted. I know the simply by positioning you body in the right spot between and engaging in converstion whether situationally related or even not in some places, "hey dude, nice shoes" will work.

    Suave Kino, as I've realized that you have a huge field experience approaching and dating women and also that your outgoing and adventurous character very much resonates with mine, I would be glad if we could meet up and go to pick up girls sometime together. Just out of curiosity, what pickup artists did you learn from the most? You can also send me a private message if you like.

    I learned most from the mystery method and Brad P. I have blended their styles and am somewhere in the middle of the two.

    By the way, one of my main problems at the moment is not knowing exactly how to best start and then keep a conversation going where I would like to switch that initial introduction chat into a sexual chat as quickly as possible (whether through some good sex banters or something similar that works best for you) in a specific situation where I'm randomly meeting a girl in the crowded bus where she's sitting while I am forced to stand next to her as there're no available seats.

    If it were me and i sat down next to the girl. I would use a situational opener and introduce myself. I have a trick that works almost every time. When I introduce myself i reach out and shake her hand, turn her plam so that i can see it, and say "hmmm, very interesting and release."She will almost always ask you what that means intro into her entire personality and sexuality.

    For example: Hey do you of a good coffee place near broadway? Her uh, blah, blah, blah. I'm sorry, that was rude. I guess I should introduce myself, I'm Kino. Extend hand, briefly but obviously look at palm.

    In addition to this one, I'd also like to ask you the same question about successfully switching the intro chat into a sex chat when directly approaching a girl on the street whether she is accompanied by another man or not.

    Man, apporaching a mixed set in the day is a toughie, I don't personally have a strategy for that.

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    Default Re: How To Approach a Girl Who's Accompanied With A Man

    Kino's got some good technique. I was speaking more from the point where the man is actually hurting her or assaulting her. But if he is just bothering her by coming on too strong you should go with what he said. I just don't put up with guy who think it's okay to hit a woman.
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