So I've been seeing this girl a few times, but haven't been able to close the deal (have sex). I was able to get her up to see my place (made an excuse to see my christmas tree that I put up) but couldn't get her to bed. Not sure exactly how she sees me as a friend or a potential person to have sex with......what are some things I can do to take it up to the next level? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!