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    Default Complicated situation... what do you think?

    Ok so I left my ex after I had all I could take. We lived together and I moved out. A few days later I met a friend at a bar and told her about my situation and invited me to stay with her. We stayed up drinking all night and it was fun. At this time my ex and I were somewhat official so I didn't do anything with this girl. I met up with this girl the following weekend after I broke up with my ex and we ended up drinking all night and making out and such. So a couple of days pass and she starts blowing me off. A week later she tells me that she saw my ex and that she was balling her eyes out and that she didn't want her to know about us and that it was too much for her and she broke it off with me. Although we still hung out and kept drinking. I'm pretty into this chick and I'm trying to figure out the rules of engagement here. I'm not a pro by any means and I'm looking for expert advice. So what do you think I should do to keep this thing going?

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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    Yea this is delicate. Depends on a lot of things.

    Im hoping your on good terms with your ex. You may need to have coffee with her and say listen, i still care about you but we aren't meant to be, I don't want to hurt you but you gotta move on, etc

    Then hang out with your other friend sometime. Let her know like - I know my ex is still hung up on me but I talked to her, we are done, etc. I've had fun hanging out with you so maybe we can just be cool and hang out, etc

    Basically, you need to reassure new girl that it's all cool
    Dont promise you won't fool around, dont give a direct answer either way, just tell her you don't want to worry about anything right now, once she's more comfortable again she will relax and when it happens it happens
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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    I had the same idea about making nice with the ex. I ran into her last night but she totally hates me right now. She flipped me off so I blew a kiss at her.

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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    Well... That kinda sucks

    I say make the effort to have the conversation with her, if she refuses then its not your fault you made an honest effort
    I think regardless of the outcome you stick with the approach on the new girl
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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    Yeah I'm not all too sure about the new girl right now. We meet up the other night and I found out she has hung out with my ex recently (with out telling her that she hangs out with me). She invited me over but shes beginning to shit test me and keep me at arms length almost no matter what I do. I feel like she has the upper hand here and I don't like that too much. It caught me off guard for sure.

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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    That certainly changes things

    Time to pull away from her until she starts pursuing you then
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    Default Re: Complicated situation... what do you think?

    Note taken. Thanks for the info. I'm enjoying reading the forum as I had forgotten how fun being single was. Nice to get my f#ckin balls back.


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