Not sure if I've pushed her too fast so I'm seeking for some advice on what to do next.
Backstory: I've known this girl for a little over a year but just recently started something romantic with her. Been texting back and forth for about a month and asked her over for dinner. She flaked the first time but showed up the second.
12/19/2011 - First "Date"
She arrived around 7 in a cute short dress and high heeled boots with a bottle of chianti. I gave her a quick kiss at the door and then led her up the stairs. I was wearing a Santa hat and gave her a pair of antlers which she kept on until the movie started. Poured a glass a wine for both of us and we talked as I finished cooking.
We moved to the living room where we ate and watched a classic Disney movie (no she isn't 13, it just allowed us to chat since both of us had seen it before). Mostly talked during the movie and steadily increased kino and started making out. I broke off the kissing every time with each make-out session lasting a bit longer than the last time.
The movie concluded and she said she had to work tommorow but I convinced her to stay a bit and check out an old embarrassing video of me downstairs on my computer. She lied facedown on the bed and watched the video and after it finished I rolled her over and we began making out heavily. We dry-humped (lame i know), she opened her legs to let me rub her crotch (seriously wet) and I sucked on her tits (good size and shape for a small girl). During all this she kept saying she needed to go home and didn't put out on the first date so eventually she got up to leave and gathered her things, including the antlers.
At the door I pushed her against the wall and we made out some more. Things started escalating again as she lifted up her leg and let me start fingering her before stoping me then basically running out the door and saying that she would text me the next day.
12/20/2011 - "Day after"
I didn't get any text but I got a alert from facebook telling me she tagged me in a photo. This wasn't a recent pic, it was a trip we took with some friends over a year ago. I called her later that night, no answer, so I left a msg saying, "I had fun last night, fly safe tommorow, dueces." Also texted right after calling, "I want my antlers back! Check VM" She never txted/called back.
12/21/2011 - What to do now?
She's on the plane atm so I'm trying to figure out what's my next move. I feel I was too aggressive and I pushed her past her comfort zone. Also I acted needy while trying fclose (telling her I liked her, trying to convince her to stay the night and all that other afc shit, I lost my focus on the game once my dick became involved).
I'm thinking I'll give her space to hang out with her friends and family on vacation and hit her up when she gets back middle of January. Her birthday is in a couple weeks though, should I send her a birthday greeting? Or did I fuck it up... let me know what you think.