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    Default help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance on

    Hey guys,
    A few days ago I met a girl on campus opened, and everything as running nice and smooth. We went back to her dorm room after a party and the IOI's were rolling at me. So I hopped on her bed and was laying up against her headboard when she hops up and lays on me with her laptop and starts showing me pics of her house out west. Not being a complete idiot I could see things were running well. Before I got a kiss though her roomate walked in drunk. So she texted me the next day and we hung out again, this time when I showed up she was already pretty wasted so we were just chilling when she blacked out. I am not a sleeze so I stopped my game and took care of her. Left when she fell asleep. She texted me the next day about how sorry she was and how she thought I was so sweet. We chilled a few days later again and we kissed, but I didn't really get a return. So i tested again before I left and still no return. She didn't pull away though. So my question is did i blow my chance? And is it possible to rebound from this and get back in the possibility of a physical relationship.
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    P.s sorry its so long, this is my first real thread and i felt it was necessary to fill everyone in on the background.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    By the looks of it, she may have placed you in the friend zone. One way to get out of it i just tell her that you don't wan to be friends, you want to be more than friends. Then you should take her out on a date, and flirt with her, and then you should be good to go... hope this helps

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    Yeah it does a lot. Thanks a lot. It seems like I am vastly over thinking this problem.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    I would say you blew your chance. You went wrong mostly when you took care of her when she blacked out like you were her man-nurse. If a chick shows up drunk on me and blacks out I don't spend my time taking care of the lush-slut. It may seem like you did the right thing, but, and this is hard to stomach - doing the right thing isn't often the best thing. Doing what seems nice is often perceived as beta behavior by women. Would a truly alpha-masculine man waste his time on a woman who doesn't even have the common decency to show up sober, let alone cocked off her ass drunk??? Oddly enough, if you had just left her and kind of ignored her for awhile after she tried to apologize the next day, you probably would have made a lot more headway with her. She would have been stuck in a position of qualifying herself to you.

    I sincerely hope you are not interested in any kind of a relationship with a girl who shows up and blacks out. The red flags couldn't be any more obvious.

    I also really disagree with PinkFloyd's advice. For the love of all that is good, do not tell her you want to be more than friends. That's akin to telling a girl you like her - which is an awful idea. Basically, try to get the lush to hang out with you sober, then apply game from there. But, as I said, she's not GF material or anything bro.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    Also, if a girl tells you that you're "so sweet," it's generally a bad sign. "You're so sweet" is one of those phrases that often precedes something along the lines of "but I don't want to lose you as a friend." Girls rip out the "so sweet" line on guys they've placed firmly into the friendzone as an attempt to let them down easy.

    All of this may sound like hard words, but always look at the bright side. Learning game is something that necesitates tons of failure. I failed a gazillion times before I got my game down real solid. Failure is needed to grow, and there's a bazillion women out there. Don't get hung up about one.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    Also, if a girl tells you that you're "so sweet," it's generally a bad sign. "You're so sweet" is one of those phrases that often precedes something along the lines of "but I don't want to lose you as a friend." Girls rip out the "so sweet" line on guys they've placed firmly into the friendzone as an attempt to let them down easy.

    All of this may sound like hard words, but always look at the bright side. Learning game is something that necesitates tons of failure. I failed a gazillion times before I got my game down real solid. Failure is needed to grow, and there's a bazillion women out there. Don't get hung up about one.
    what I said was pretty stupid, don't tell that you like her... I guess listen to Raven more because there are millions upon millions of other women/girls out there... You just got to find the right ones to settle down with

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    Quote Originally Posted by PinkFloydFTW View Post
    By the looks of it, she may have placed you in the friend zone. One way to get out of it i just tell her that you don't wan to be friends, you want to be more than friends. Then you should take her out on a date, and flirt with her, and then you should be good to go... hope this helps
    I too fully support the wisdom. When in doubt be clear of your intentions. I would much rather have a girl shoot me down before I buy her dinner. Then after dinner.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance

    Don't be too hard on yourself, PinkFloyd, your assessment was correct, just not the remedy.

    - Regarding drqxx

    Show intention through action. Basically, don't act like a friend if you don't want to be in the friendzone. This means you will simply lose some women entirely, because game can only go so far and it depends on the woman. If anyone reads the material of Roosh V or Roissy - aka "Heartiste" (two "mPUA's"), they know what I mean. If you want a woman, try to get with her, and don't try to slip in by being a friend - it's an awful strategy even though logically it sounds bright. If she's interested, she will reciprocate. If not, and this is like 50% of the time or more, she won't. If you're not ok with failure and rejection, you'll never be that great with women.

    Remember - women aren't logical creatures, they're emotional creatures. What seems logical isn't going to work. It seems logical that being a friend and being ncie would work, but ALL OF US men with ANY real world experience know women hate nice guys and generally reward assholes. It seems logical that telling a girl how you feel is being "honest" and straightforward, but girls are very turned off by feminine displays of emotion. Let the GIRL be the GIRL. The GIRL should be the one to tell YOU that she "really likes you" or whatever. She should tell you she loves you first, and beg you to marry her before you get her a ring. Make her fall in love with and desire you and try to lock you down. That's what she really wants. She wants a man to win over, not a man who tries to win her over.

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    Default Re: help with cute girl I am afraid I missed my chance on

    Thanks for all the help, a weird combination of all the advice worked quite well and I am glad to say I am no longer in the friend zone. Thanks again.


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