Re: Could you help, Am I in?
Lol the ol' rub one out trick. Don't over do it though, you need your testosterone levels up too. Testosterone = motivation.
Don't worry about whether she digs you or not. Make that irrelevant in your mind. Go see a movie you actually would like to see, don't just go for the sake of it. When you go to the mall, make sure you pick up a pair of pants or something so it doesn't seem like you're only there to accompany her - you actually have some business to do and she conveniently wants to go to the mall too. If your mall has a painting store, jokingly try to "interpret" the artwork. It can be fun and hilarious.
Anyway, when you do stuff with her, don't get yourself in the friendzone by doing nothing, and don't act needy. Just focus on speaking smoothly and clearly, and escalating slowly - but definitely escalating nonetheless. If it really isn't happening, no worries - you'll get to see your movie and get some pants or something. No loss. See, the trick is to go into things not worrying about her or making her the focus - make yourself the focus. Sounds selfish, but it's actually more rational than pedestalizing a girl, and by focusing on yourself you give her what she wants to - someone who isn't too needy or too beta to escalate.
Women want to win a man over, they do not want a man who tries to win them over. When you overtly try to win a woman over by being "nice," buying her stuff, or telling her your feelings, you're assuming the female role, and depriving a woman of her natural role. Make her put you on her pedestal, don't put her on yours. - Raven Maxim #7