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    Default Going for a drink with this girl tonight, and her friend….

    There is this girl foreign girl from work on a 6 month placement. So far, and as explained in my previous post (http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/9207-got-get-girl-before-she-leaves.html), there has been lots of flirting but I’ve never hooked up with her. Moreover, as there is only one month left of her placement before she leaves, I thought I better go for it.

    I text her yesterday to see if she wanted to go into the city for today. She says she is going in with her (female) friend (who is staying with her for a few days) and asks if I want to meet up. We agree to meet up but then as we were both running late today, and as her friend is hung-over, I say it’s probably best we do something another time. She then asks “how about we go for drinks this evening?”, which I say yes to.

    Obviously, I was hoping it would be just me and her so I could finally stop being a pussy and escalate with her, but her friend is coming as well. So, I’m not sure exactly how to be (how flirty etc) with them both and how much to escalate.

    Any ideas? How would you “play it”?

    Don’t get me wrong, I do really want to pull/hook up with her, but I suppose even if I don’t get the chance to escalate, it’s good social/pua practice going for a drink with 2 girls…

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    Default Re: Going for a drink with this girl tonight, and her friend….

    First phase you gotta be super social and cool and win her friend over (be fun with both of them for a while, slightly flirty)
    Once her friend gives you her approval and / or starts showing you interest ramp up the flirting with your target, but make sure you give IOIs mostly as a reward for her IOIs or her dhv (girls need to feel they earned it)

    It would also be very beneficial if you bring a good friend, someone you're close with so you can all joke together, then he can distract the obstacle when you're running stronger game on your target
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Going for a drink with this girl tonight, and her friend….

    Thanks for your reply. Unfortunately, because it was such short notice I couldn’t take anyone with. Though, I think it went fairly well as I got on quite well with her friend, and I managed to be funny and flirty etc. It seems to have worked as I received some feedback afterwards that apparently her friend said I was “very nice” lol. The only downside is I didn’t really escalate a huge amount with my target.

    Now I guess I just need to go after this girl and make sure I don’t fuck it up this time. Not sure when to ask her out again (making sure it’s just the 2 of us this time lol!) as there isn’t too much time left before she leaves, but I don’t want to seem too keen either….


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