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    Default Need help with gaming girl from work!

    There's a HB9 that I work with who I have been texting and we go out to lunch sometimes during work. We made plans tomorrow to go out, but earlier today I said "What time do you want me to pick you up for our date tomorrow" (figure this was a mistake but was trying to make sure it was a date and not a friend thing) and her response was "Our date?" I was like yeah it's a date right? ( We are going to the movies, bowling, getting something to eat, and playing basketball)
    "Wellll..Yeah it can be a date. I just didn't know it was one" was her reply.
    "That didn't sound very reasurring!" I jokingly threw in.
    Then she said "Okay It's a date."
    She also mentioned that she wasn't sure because she's "Kinda talking to someone", but that it "wasn't very serious" and it was "complicated".
    HOWEVER, she has been showing me tonsss of IOI's, like touching me a lot during work, poking me, teasing me and being flirty a lot.

    My question is: What is your opinion on her reactions and what can I do to step up and close the deal? Please help because tomorrow's the day!


    UPDATE:: She just texted me and said she was okay with hanging out as friends, just not as anything more because of this other guy she's interested in. What can I do to go up on her priority list tomorrow when we hang out all day?! Is there a way to still keep her interested in me as possibly more than friends?
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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    Depends on what you mean by seal the deal

    Just approach it like any other date, don't bring up anything about a relationship, even If you want one you gotta eventually make her come to you

    Her reactions were fine, just tone down the date discussion, she's going to be afraid of anything formal - that is, any talk of boundaries or rules, so if it comes up tell her you're in date mode too and are currently dating other people. Tell her you like hanging out with her and just want to see what happens right now

    Once you tell her you're dating other people it will clear up any misconceptions about if this means you are together, and it will allow you guys to progress to other dates or fooling around without having to return to what it means because both of you discussed it

    Here's the basic approach http://www.puaforums.com/dating-advi...exclusive.html , read this for a reference but modify the attitude for your situation
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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    Yeah well, she just told me she was bailing. So much for that. Not sure how I farked up. I was pretty into her too.

    UPDATE:: She just texted me and said she was okay with hanging out as friends, just not as anything more because of this other guy she's interested in. What can I do to go up on her priority list tomorrow when we hang out all day?! Is there a way to still keep her interested in me as possibly more than friends?
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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    BUMP. I need help guys! Please give me some advice I'm at a loss with this girl. She just said she would not bail on me and still go out as long as we just went to play basketball and then drink afterwards. She doesn't want to do bowling OR a movie.

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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    You gave her to much confidence about what you want from her. I recommend that you show her your high values and make her think you are not needy and you are perfectly ok without her . I would not go to this date cause the target is already aware about your intentions and she is on full guard. Make her think that you have better plans play strong inner game believe in what you are doing and once she put her guard down , the game is on use everything you know, tell stories play gambling games(5 lies) don't bet for drink bet for a kiss and if you are good at seduction and you know how to kiss I'm sure you will conquer. Good luck

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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    So I shouldn't go play basketball and drink with her tomorrow night?
    Also, why would she choose to drink with me over movie and bowling?

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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    Cause that's more likely that she chose her stage and she put her own rules and that means it's aint your game anymore . But you could give it a try if you have strong inner game you can manage to get thing under your control.

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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    I'm going to disagree, you did lose the frame now and you are going in on her terms, but that's not bad enough to call it off

    Keep the date, just be prepared if she brings up the date topic, she is afraid of defining it so that is where you need to be on your toes

    Go on the date, regain control of the frame in explaining your dating other people too and you have no expectations from her, she will relax then

    Besides basketball and drinks sounds like fun, whole lot better than bowling
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    Default Re: Need help with gaming girl from work!

    I dont know, sounds if you bail on her shes gonna get mad and take it personally rather than see that you have better things to do. Ive noticed that if you know a woman for a long time all you can really do is be there for them and be a good guy, and eventually the pieces will fall together.


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