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    Default Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    Hey all, this is my first post since im new here..
    anyways, to my little prob :s..
    the thing is..
    When? : last Sunday morning, when returning home from an amazing Xmas eve,
    Where? : In a mini van transport for home ..
    What Happened? : this girl started talking to me (random stuff, name, where i live etc).. [ignoring completely my other 3 friends except for one that was sitting under me (van full up :P) {only asked his name}..
    Think flirting phase? : while talking to her she placed her hand on my leg (i was sitting after her).. when i was talking to my friend, she kinda kept hearing everything and also asking questions about what i was saying.. when my friends got outta the van she didn't notice (or so she told me when looking back to talk to me).. but when i was leaving, she told me 'bye, goodnight, sweetdreams and take care'... also when i almost arrived home, she described her facebook picture, repeated her name and surname (and nickname which was in brackets :P)
    then.. that sunday afternoon when i woke up i just searched her on FB and sent a req and accepted me.. but didn't talk to her or anything except 'liking' her profile picture..
    ok thats all..
    now could you PLEASE tell me if you think shes flirting or just friendly.. and if yes what should i start talking about on fb ( since not sure i see her again next saturday :/)to not look weird :s (since 3 days passed)
    any reply would help
    thx

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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    She was 100% flirting with you, and it sounds like heavily into you

    Send her a message or something to Tease her about something, memory from last weekend, her picture, her interests, just something

    Second message go right for the number. Jus make sure you wait a day after her response before sending the number request, even if she responds immediately
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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    first off thx for replying ..
    secondly.. hmm, i kinda dunno how to just start the chat on FB with her since i spent the last 3 days silent ://

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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    3 days of silence is good dude, she remembers you, you don't want to talk to her every day, if you didnt wait 3 days it could seem needy but u are clear

    Just send her a hey... Xxx. Tease her
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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    ok .. will try it today when she gets online (thinking of an opener though.. to not sound dull ) :P.. hopefully 2012 will be good haha
    Last edited by bobat6; 12-29-2011 at 04:56 AM.

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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    Ok final point of clarification, I was referring to just sending her a message instead of the chat feature. Chat is great too, just modify your approach, don't go for the number as immediately, get the chat rolling a little first but definitely ask after a minut or two
    Going for the actual number is really simple, "hey it's been fun talking to you, you wanna hang out some time?", or "hey I gotta run but before I go, you wanna hang out sometime?" is all you really need. She should volunteer the number from there
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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    Oh ok thx lots ..
    when she gets on i wait like 15mins or so, so as to not seem like i was waiting for her to get on hehe :P..
    then i was going to chat like this :


    POSSible convo 1

    me: hey there
    she: hey
    me: how r u
    she: ok thx, u?
    me: same here..
    she: thats good..
    me: haha im searching in my wardrobe for what should i wear for NewYearEve
    she: tell me bout it, still need to buy them aswell..thinkin tonight heh
    me: haha :PP.. its cool, at least im not alone in this situation :F..
    she: hahaa ;p so, were u going nice?
    me: thinkin @X .. you?
    she: same..
    me: listen, i gotta go now and try to buy something since i cant find anything good here :P..
    she: excetely how it happened to me XP, hopefully no rain today while im buying aswell[she wrote while i was going to write the next line]
    me: yeah...anyways it was nice talkin to ya {again}..so, wanna hang out sometime? maybe nxt week or so ?
    she : same here , yeah why not, even if u wanna message me next sat ..[digits here]
    me : cool ..btw dont except messages next sat cause i would most probs be walking on my face with all the vodka haha ..
    she: haha same dw
    me : anyways cu..
    she: bye, tc , hf


    possible convo 2

    me: hey there
    she: hey
    me: how have u been?
    she: fine thx, u?
    me: same here..just searching in my wardrobe for what should i wear for NewYearEve
    she: heh tell me bout it, still need to buy them aswell..thinkin about going tonight
    me: haha :PP.. its cool, at least im not alone in this situation :F..
    she: hahaa ;p
    me : so, any plans for next sat?
    she: thinkin @X .. you?
    me: same ..
    me: hey, i gotta go now and try to buy something since i cant find anything good here :P.. anyways it was nice talkin to ya again.. wanna hang out sometime? maybe nxt week ?
    she: yeah why not, even if u wanna message me next sat ..[digits here]
    me : cool ..btw dont except messages next sat cause i would most probs be walking on my face with all the vodka haha ..
    she: haha same dw
    me : cu..
    she: bye, tc , hf


    the problem here is that if she tells me: 'oh ..i already know what to wear..' instead of 'heh tell me bout it, still need to buy them aswell..thinkin about going tonight' i donno how to continue.. which means awkward silence and bye bye dating chance :s
    also.. the replies could be sort of different.. like she rejects aswell .. (she knows too many boys :P.. so not 100% im topping all of them hehe_)
    Last edited by bobat6; 12-29-2011 at 09:04 AM.

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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    Wow you're thinking way too much into this

    Ignore the pleasantries and use the wardrobe question as your opener

    Like -
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    Nye- do I go with sparkly purple shirt or big green top hat? (or whatever more subdued)

    Joke from there
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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    u make it look too easy :P haha thx lots dude .. hopefully she gets online today.. haha shes appearing off :/ (notcied through ticker :P)
    Last edited by bobat6; 12-29-2011 at 10:44 AM.

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    Default Re: Need Help with HB 9+ dunno if flirt or playin..?

    loool.. i actualy never thought this would happen to me :P..(this is funny story).. i was so drunk last sat i remembered the name she repeated when i was going outta the van but not the one she said at the begining -.-', so i added the wrong girl and talked to her now haha.. she said she doesn't know me or remembered talking to me.. we talked a bit etc.. then she said ''i brb changing PC's, and then tell me what u need for NYE''.. oh well still hasnt returned after 40mins haha :PP nevermind.. it was worth the talk anyways :PP


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