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    Default Picking up in a loud nightclub

    Hey,

    I was at a nightclub tonight in Sydney, and the clubs here are really damn loud. I saw so many HB 8-9s and felt like a dumbass since the music was too loud to talk over. So I just assumed I should work with it. No opener, just straight up trying to dance my way into a group. Didn't work out too well with most of them turning their backs to me and my wing.

    To be honest, daygame would have been easier than this. Any advice for these loud music night clubs?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Picking up in a loud nightclub

    Dance clubs are tough. The dance floor has its own self-contained social dynamic where your social proof is based around your ability to dance. So by approaching on the dance floor without being able to dance well you're starting yourself out from a lower-value position. You're best bet is to wait until your target(s) leave the dance floor and approach them then on even footing.

    So beyond the dance floor, the dance club itself offers it's own set of advantages and disadvantages. Loud venues like this are perfect for kino escalation in that the noise gives you a perfect, non-threatening excuse to get close to and touch your target without setting off her creep alarms. The noise forces you to be very close physically to hear each other and also gives you an excuse to touch her when you need to get her attention (a hand on the small of her back, a hand on the cheek and physically turn her head towards you if you're feeling brave). Read over my field report titled "Unintentional Smooth Move Last Night" in the field reports forum for a good trick to try to work into these kinds of situations. These places also give you a good reason for an insta-date ("Its entirely too loud in here lets go [insert preferred insta-date]).

    An obvious disadvantage to these venues is that the noise level will make conversation difficult if one or both party's are soft spoken and nothing kills a spontaneous piece of game like her saying "Huh?" in response. Another disadvantage (especially for those with Multiple Left-Foot Syndrome like myself) is that you could reasonably be expected to dance and failing to meet or exceed your target's own skill level could (read: COULD, not always) be a DLV. Denying your target a dance can be tricky as well. A line I like to use is something along these lines:

    Target: Lets dance! *Takes your hand*
    Me/You: Why? So you can get me out there and get all handsy with me? I don't think so, Sweety, you're gonna have to work a little harder to get your hands on this merchandise.

    Its a bit of a judgement call whether or not to use this. You need to be projecting a strong frame for this one, or else she may just blow you off and go dance alone. When it works, though, it will almost surely elicit some good kino from her. Thats about all the loud club advice I've got. Stay excellent brother. Wildcat Out.

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    Default Re: Picking up in a loud nightclub

    Double posted response for some reason. The Quick Brown Fox Jumps Over The Lazy Dog.
    Last edited by Wildcat78; 12-29-2011 at 09:27 AM.

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    Default Re: Picking up in a loud nightclub

    My first ever post/reply...

    I've found that a great fun way to deal with loud nightclubs, is to ask girls and their friends to a 'dance off'. I know it sounds abit lame, but girls always laugh and a good 8 times out of 10 join in.

    Personally I always say 'Ladies first' then just imitate them. They think its hilarious and your a fun guy, which i guess the aim!

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    What i like to do is throw something like a ice cube or a rolled up napkin at the group and turn away they will usually open u after that with what the *** or why did u do that u say I've been hanging with my friends for 5 mins and u haven't even said hi

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    Default Re: Picking up in a loud nightclub

    At a dance club, your best bet is to start off by talking to girls away from the dance floor. Most girls go to clubs with groups of girl friends, so a lot of the times a girl you are talking too will introduce you to her friends. When her friends see you are cool and give the girl you are talking too the "approval" (girls seem to do this a lot, to see if their friends "approve" of you), then you are in. They decide to go dance, ask you to go with them (girl you have rapport with will usually be the one who grabs your hand to go), and you end up on the dance floor with a group of girls all dancing with you. Other girls see this, thus a snowball effect of DHV
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    Default Re: Picking up in a loud nightclub

    Eye Contact, Smile, and Great Body Language!

    Majority of the time it does not matter what you say as long as your giving off a great vibe. It does help having an awareness of which girls seem open and which one's seemed closed off. I will say you have better chance of k-closing and f-closing in venue in loud clubs than going on future dates, from my experiences. I went to a Spanish club Friday night solo, hardly anyone spoke English and I K-closed a couple smoking hot Spanish girls. Confidence and Assertiveness goes a long way.


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