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    Default My first time sarging

    Hey guys,

    I'm having one-itis. I have posted earlier but only about this one girl. Tomorrow I will see her and I will give it my best shot to kiss her. However if that doesn't work out so well I'm gonna go get over my one-itis.
    My best friends birthday is tomorrow so after work we are going out. I promised my friends that I will get a couple of decent sets. It doesn't really matter how I close it, just that I make a close.
    We are going to 3 loud clubs. I really can't dance. There will be 4 of my friends there. One has some knowledge of pua stuff, however I think he will try to be my wing and fail my sets for me. That doesn't really matter though, I just want to have fun and maybe I can teach him something.

    Well I actually posted to see if you guys have some advice for me. It's really my first time sarging so I know what to do I just never field tested anything.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    Best tip i can give - Read material again for like an hour before you go out it will help put you in game mode

    Second best tip, smile!!

    Get one opener you're comfortable with as a backup, like - "hey I need a girls opinion on x", but use situational openers if you can

    You only fail if you don't try otherwise it's feedback. Just be confident
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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    Thanks those are good tips.

    I can't read the material an hour before I go out though... I'm going out straight out of work. I will read it before I go to work xD

    I'm not comfortable with situational openers, although I will try them. However I tend to overthink stuff and a situational opener doesn't help that.

    But I will do my best.

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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    I have a motivational image for alpha male PUA's stored on my PC. It's short and will probably quickly put you in the right mindset. The text goes like this:

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    Be positive Alpha 100%.
    Be happy. Feel good. Have fun.
    Time table. Prioritize.
    Enjoy the day.

    I am the best. I am the prize.
    High status. DHV. Smile.
    Not emotional. The leader.
    The decision maker.
    My life is the BEST.
    "

    Read it a couple of times or even speak it out loud if you don't mind your friends giving you funny faces haha. Good luck tonight!

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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    Couple tips.

    Shoulders back, chest out, chin up, and palms open. Smile and maintain good eye contact. It will be loud so less emphasis on what you say then how you convey it. Just go out to have fun with no agenda.

    This has been helping me. Red Baron would say your the prize. So you never get rejected, you find out if they have good taste. I found that reframe works for me. Act then let the feelings happen, don't let the feelings happen then try to act later.

    Good luck, use this party experience to keep growing and gain new experiences.

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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    Thanks you all. I actually didn't go out because after work I didn't feel so great. I've been ill for a couple of days. Next time I go out I will certainly use your tips.

    The girl I have a crush on gave me mixxed signals again. I really don't know what I should do with her. So I think I'll just forget about her.
    I think that at some point she graced my ass with her hand. A couple of minutes later she told me she hates me. Then said it was a joke. That hurt me. But I acted like it wasn't a big deal...

    EDIT: I actually feel like she is trying to dlv herself by being rude... maybe she sees me as being lower value than she is but she likes me and wants to lower her value for me? I'm really over thinking this huh, guys? XD

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    Default Re: My first time sarging

    No that's not dlv, mixed signals, it's a girls way of push pull, she's teasing you and testing you

    don't let any of the crap they say get to you they rarely mean it they're just seeing how you react. Always be unaffected and it will eat them up

    Go out sarging, keep her in the wings, but don't divert all your attention to her
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