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    Bender is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to confront gf about a text convo I found on her phone

    Hi I need help guys, my gf left her cell phone in my truck last night then I found it after she called me from home asking if I could look in my truck. Ive been her bf for about 3 weeks now and I decided to take a peak at her text logs. I read a convo she had with another guy and he had mentioned to her at one point "Im bored, just laying in bed" then she replied "kisses xx " then he said "i wish" and she goes "me too babe"...that was enough to question my relationship with her but I want to confront her without looking like an asshole for going through her phone. How should I play this out guys ?

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    Default Re: How to confront gf about a text convo I found on her phone

    Three weeks is not a long time, and if she can't even be loyal through texting, I doubt this girl's going to be loyal at all. Dump her.

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    Default Re: How to confront gf about a text convo I found on her phone

    She may be leading a boy on, but yea I'd probably just go distant, flirt with other girls, you never wanna be the chump that gets used

    Do your thing too, if she tries to call you out bring it up
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: How to confront gf about a text convo I found on her phone

    How long were you dating her before she became you're girlfriend?

    I consider dating other women fair game until a discussion occurs to be exclusive. You shouldn't commit to a relationship with someone until you're good and ready-- seeing her on a regular basis for several months, had sex, tried seeing other women but just not interested.

    Since it's ok for me to date other women, I also am fine with her seeing other men. Otherwise it's a double standard. Most of the time I don't have anything to worry about, because most guys can't compete with me.

    If you try to determine the relationship too early, this kind of stuff happens.


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