I'm very new to the whole PUA world. In fact, I just started learning Mystery Method a few days ago... here's the situation.
I've been on 4 dates with this girl I met online. I got the k-close after the 3rd date, and the fourth date goes just as well. Unfortunately, I have to fly home for 2 weeks after that but she asks if she can see me before I leave. I said maybe, but it turns out that I fly out before she can get a day off (nurse working night shift so it's hard to get our schedules to mesh sometimes).
During the 2 weeks I'm gone, I've called her three times and texted back and forth when she initiated. We have these great 2 hour conversations when we do talk on the phone and I'm getting seriouse oneitis for her. She's planning things for us to do when I get back, and I think things are going great so I let my guard down the last time we talked... big mistake in hind sight. I tell her how much I enjoy talking to her and feel as if I can tell her everything... kinda sickens me how big of an AFC I've been.
Anyway... tried to set up a time over text to meet her when I get back next week. She said she was off Wed, Thurs but will have to check. I replied I was free Thursday and that's the last I heard from her over 12 hours ago.
My question is. Am I freaking out over nothing? I know I'm being a major AFC and need to reframe. Should I freeze her out and not even call her when I get back into town? I figure the ball's in her court, and if she wants to see me... she'll call.
HELP!! ADVICE PLEASE!!!