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    Default Need expert advice!! Should I freeze out and how? What would you do?

    Hey everyone,

    I'm very new to the whole PUA world. In fact, I just started learning Mystery Method a few days ago... here's the situation.

    I've been on 4 dates with this girl I met online. I got the k-close after the 3rd date, and the fourth date goes just as well. Unfortunately, I have to fly home for 2 weeks after that but she asks if she can see me before I leave. I said maybe, but it turns out that I fly out before she can get a day off (nurse working night shift so it's hard to get our schedules to mesh sometimes).

    During the 2 weeks I'm gone, I've called her three times and texted back and forth when she initiated. We have these great 2 hour conversations when we do talk on the phone and I'm getting seriouse oneitis for her. She's planning things for us to do when I get back, and I think things are going great so I let my guard down the last time we talked... big mistake in hind sight. I tell her how much I enjoy talking to her and feel as if I can tell her everything... kinda sickens me how big of an AFC I've been.

    Anyway... tried to set up a time over text to meet her when I get back next week. She said she was off Wed, Thurs but will have to check. I replied I was free Thursday and that's the last I heard from her over 12 hours ago.

    My question is. Am I freaking out over nothing? I know I'm being a major AFC and need to reframe. Should I freeze her out and not even call her when I get back into town? I figure the ball's in her court, and if she wants to see me... she'll call.

    HELP!! ADVICE PLEASE!!!

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    Default Re: Need expert advice!! Should I freeze out and how? What would you do?

    Letting your guard down could of gave her validation, but don't give her all your attention. Your finding out if she has good taste, if she doesn't there are millions of other women.

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    Default Re: Need expert advice!! Should I freeze out and how? What would you do?

    Most likely nothing, but withdraw a little bit. Still show interest but not quite as much until she starts reciprocating

    Seriously girls space out texts all the time it's part of their games, don't worry about it at all
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Need expert advice!! Should I freeze out and how? What would you do?

    You have an online dating profile and you're not seeing other women?

    You are working way to hard for this girl. Two hour conversations are nice, but ultimately lead to the friends zone. You need to escalate on the first date, not the third.

    She should be working to get your approval, not the other way around. There's not much you can do to change the dynamic that has been established.

    Anyway, your one-itus owns any decision that you make, conscious or unconscious.

    Just drop her.

    Falling out of love is easy when you see how many other hotties are around that you can get.

    Always have bucket list of 3-4 women that way you don't get too emotionally involved or clingy. It happens to the best of us, man. You just need to know what to do.


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