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    Prize is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    I successfully 'gamed' this girl a few months ago as she told my friend she really likes me.

    Had just one date, kissed but thats it coz she only has sex in relationships.

    Gamed her more and then found out through a friend that she has major trust issues and has a tendancy to 'long' things out.

    Things went a bit cold for a bit then went hot again (through text). I grew strong feelings for her and then told her how i feel and that we should be exclusive.

    She first said i dont know but then said lets see more of each other and see how it goes.

    I then turned into a 'nice' guy for a week and tried to organize dates (in the cool way) but she always has an excuse...however she is VERY responsive over text and messages me a lot.

    I dont know whether to lean back now and let her ask for a relationship or to carry on persisting. Be afc or pua?

    Also is this expected as she has trust issues? Is she testing me?

    All thoughts/advice much appreciated

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    No she's not testing you she's afraid of committing to anything

    Space out your responses to texts, sometimes wait a few hours then respond righ away
    Make her wonder what else you're up to, it will make her crave your attention back

    When you're upfront about liking a girl, they don't had to work for it, and they don't see you as a prize
    When you make a girl work for it (and reward her when she does) t triggers switches in them that tells them you're worth pursuing
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    Reading this I think the issue was your seduction, or lack there of. Focus your skill on turning the girl on and making her hot for you. You had an in and went afc before you even f closed. Improve your game, it will pay off.

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    just had a similar experience with a twin that works for me. i had attraction and i asked her if she liked me. when she said yes i got too excited and asked afc stuff like "how do you think your boyfriend will take it" and "do you think your parents will like me?" that freaked her out and now she's quitting because she's so uncomfortable around me. she was my dream girl too. don't get too anxious.

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    The Red Baron is right.

    "When you're upfront about liking a girl, they don't had to work for it, and they don't see you as a prize
    When you make a girl work for it (and reward her when she does) t triggers switches in them that tells them you're worth pursuing"

    The best thing you can do here is f*ck her friend. Women are attracted to men who are desired by other women.

    Get over your feelings for her-- if she has trust issues, that's a red flag.

    "Let's see how it goes" = "I'm not interested, but I'm too polite to say no, and hopefully maybe you'll go away before you ask me again."

    Use your amazing skills to pick up other women. That's why you're on here right? To meet lots of women, not just dole over one.

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    The way i'm seeing it is that if she wasn't interested she would have left it when she said 'i don't know' (standard not interested response)...but then when she msged me again and said I was surprised when you asked me, let's spend more time together and see how it goes; it seems like shes putting herself back in the mix? Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    I think the more important question is why are you trying to game a girl that clearly has trust issues? As was mentioned before, why dote all over one girl when there are plenty of women out there that are probably just as attractive, just as cool and WITHOUT all the baggage that comes with it?

    Girls with trust issues have them for a reason and do you want to deal with that throughout the entire time you're dating her? sh1t like that doesn't go away.

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    Default Re: Girl Confused? Scared? Or Not Interested?

    [quote=Gigantor;33240]I think the more important question is why are you trying to game a girl that clearly has trust issues?
    Girls with trust issues have them for a reason and do you want to deal with that quote]

    My thoughts exactly! Let her go, and hone your skills! Honestly...
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