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    Default Need help in clubs and social

    hi all, i kinda need help with lots of things
    im 18 years old, never been in a relationship , or even kissed a girl (wow im so awkward :s), i know quite some people but mostly are males and the few females i know, i dont talk too much to them.. im a normal guy(i get rated like a 7 or so), with a slim physique (hittin the gym 4 days a week and gettin good results but atm still slim but no abs) i know how to dress a lot and i get lots of compliments from friends etc (without askin them)+ i go to a hairdresser every time i go to clubs etc so as to have a very nice hair
    whenever i enter a club etc i strike a small conversation with the bouncers etc.. and talk to strangers(males) near the bar while waiting for my drink, introduce myself to friends of my friends, [hug / hi5 or any other sort of gesture to the friends i see in streets or in the club etc]..
    the problem is that every weekend i set myself the target to get at least 1 girl to dance with (i know, you say JUST 1?) but eventually i almost never try and not because im shy etc (very outgoing) but donno what to start the conversation except for "hey wanna dance" but doesnt really make that much sense to ask that if they already dancin (most of the time they are), also the prob is fear of rejection yeah i admit..one other thing - i tried to just randomly dance with someone when they dancing, but usually they just give me that look of "what u tihnk ur doing?" or "gtfo"..


    any thoughts on were to start please?
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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    Pulling girls to the dance floor is really not the best objective. Work on other things to discuss, If you got nothing say "what are we out celebrating tonight?", otherwise remark on their accessories, some wierd event in the bar, choice of drinks, whatever. My favorite openers are to go give them crap about something
    Read the game by Strauss, it will give you a fantastic understanding of the basics
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    brianborg is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    Oh ok, but my m8 for example, whenever he dances with a girl, he ends up making a lot of physcial contact, make out and even more sexual..
    and a simple question, do you think i should never try with HB 8+ since they rate me as a 7 (because most prob they would want someone better lookin)

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    It can be done but you're better off practicing game on girls you can talk to, so many guys just hunt the dance floor

    More importantly if you see yourself as a 7 you're never going to get an 8 or 9. If you believe and walk with the swagger and style of a 9 you can pull 9s too. Gotta believe in yourself. Seriously read that book you can pick it up at local book stores it will help everything make sense
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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    i think your problem is just self esteem (you fear rejection and scared to dance with HB 8+) all you have to do is simply say, yeah i am capable of talking to her/dance etc and i will.. [not all those guys which date hb 9+ are extremely good lookin, they just show confidence in what they are and girls like that]

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    thank you both yeah ur both right aswell haha :/ hmm @The Red Baron, yeah i will try and find the book hope it helps, cause i need to change this problem.. @bobat, yeah it is self esteem i know but i cant really help it that much unless i really find a great hb 8+, but im going to try on hb 6/7 for now hopefully i get a chance and when i feel better about myself, i move up to HB 7/8 or even more :d .. next saturday evening will do the miracle :P

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    Start with inner game. Google search PUA being the man or body language of a natural. Looks do not always mean much to women. They look at other qualities like good health, high social status, leader of others, etc. Also, look up youtube video's of David Wygant, Gambler, Nick Sparks. They have good videos.

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    1.) Drop the number rating system. It's lame and horrible for your game. If you can get a hardon thinking about her, then she's right for you. When you forget about trying to get the hottest one in the club, they will come to you.

    2.) You're doing fine for starting out. I would recommend just being more aggressive. Authority assures compliance.

    3.) Get an online dating profile so you can get some experience with women one-on-one. A lot of guys want to pick up women, but the truth is that online dating is the easiest way to meet women who are already pre-qualified. Get some experience with some chicks "the easy way", then try pick up again and you'll be amazed at how your inner game is a lot stronger.

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    thx for posting i have 5 more days left till next saturday and till then gonna read lots and watch vids on YT and hopefully do good :P

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    Default Re: Need help in clubs and social

    yup keep doing that but not only for the next 5 days, whenever you read, watch someone else pick up, you always learn and get new ideas so keep it on


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