hi all, i kinda need help with lots of things
im 18 years old, never been in a relationship , or even kissed a girl (wow im so awkward :s), i know quite some people but mostly are males and the few females i know, i dont talk too much to them.. im a normal guy(i get rated like a 7 or so), with a slim physique (hittin the gym 4 days a week and gettin good results but atm still slim but no abs) i know how to dress a lot and i get lots of compliments from friends etc (without askin them)+ i go to a hairdresser every time i go to clubs etc so as to have a very nice hair
whenever i enter a club etc i strike a small conversation with the bouncers etc.. and talk to strangers(males) near the bar while waiting for my drink, introduce myself to friends of my friends, [hug / hi5 or any other sort of gesture to the friends i see in streets or in the club etc]..
the problem is that every weekend i set myself the target to get at least 1 girl to dance with (i know, you say JUST 1?) but eventually i almost never try and not because im shy etc (very outgoing) but donno what to start the conversation except for "hey wanna dance" but doesnt really make that much sense to ask that if they already dancin (most of the time they are), also the prob is fear of rejection yeah i admit..one other thing - i tried to just randomly dance with someone when they dancing, but usually they just give me that look of "what u tihnk ur doing?" or "gtfo"..
any thoughts on were to start please?