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    redrex94 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need some advice, girls gone cold

    Need some help: I know it's long but please read. Cliffs at the bottom.

    Meet hot chick through some friends, she gave us a lift home from the clubs, created some attraction with her. Next day she adds me on FB, writes on my wall saying it was nice to meet me etc. Coming up to New Years I messaged her on FB asking what she was up to and number closed. I was going to a house party then into the clubs to catchup with her, was messaging her all night but everyone else bailed on the clubs and it was to much of a hike for me on my own. She said it wasn't that great anyway, I created more attraction about giving her a new years kiss and cuddle and told her to come to mine after the clubs. She was getting a cab anyway and only lives 5 mins away. I told her she can crash at mine but we don't have a spare bed so she'd have to stay in my bed which she agrees.


    Here's the bad part, I start to loose my voice. By the time she gets there my voice is ****ed and every few words I cant get the word out, so annoyed by now. Anyway she brings a friend over with her (she asked) and the guy her friend was hooking up with, they were only staying for a bit then going home, ontop of the voice my housemate is up and sits out the back with us. So her friend leaves (she tells her it's cool to) and unfortunately my housemate stays sitting out the back which doesn't help my causes of getting close to her. We wern't really tired so we all sit out the back and talk (again not that i really can), hard to keep creating the attraction/teasing her etc when I cant hardly talk. We finally head into my room, I give her some of my clothes to put on and we lay down, even with the A/C on the room is like a sauna because were in a heatwave and the sun was beaming on my room. I cuddle her and she cuddles me back, we talk for a bit but it was so hot to cuddle. She goes "I'd kiss you but I'm sick" and she really was sick but I'm unsure by then if I've stuffed up and that's why or it was really because she is sick. I said something like "I had the same thing last week so I don't mind". Didn't get the kiss and my game was so far off that night I can imagine why.

    I cuddled her for a bit when we went to goto sleep but it was seriously so hot I stopped for both our sakes. We went to sleep for a few hours, talked some more then I dropped her home. Got a goodbye cuddle and that's it, and she said I'll message you later.

    Between me loosing my voice, my housemate being there, her being sick, my room being a hot box and my game being off I think I ****ed this one.
    She didn't message me that day so I ended up messaging her the next arvo asking how she was feeling, teasing her a little about a joke we had. She replied and we talked for a bit, she was saying how sick she is etc so I told her to get better so we can hangout again once I actually have a voice and she's better. She goes "yeah, hopefully ill be better soon "

    I ended up telling her to message me today because I could tell she was in a bad mood, not really towards me but on a FB status she was and wasn't really her usual self in the messages.

    Where should I go from her brahs?
    I told her we're having a pool party not next weekend the one after and before all that happened she said she was keen. What should I do in the mean time to get her intersted again or is it to late?

    Normally I wouldn't care but she is pretty hot, which I know was the reason my game was off :\ The time before my game was spot on that's what got her interested, just gotta get that chance again and I'll make it happen. The only two things I have on my side are that one of her girl friends i kinda know only found out yesterday that we were hanging out because my housemate told her (they use to hookup) and she said that's good he's a cool bloke, so I'm hoping she puts in a good word and also her friend that came with her messaged my housemate basically saying if the other guy wasn't there she would have stayed as well. So I can probably set something up with my housemate, her bestie and me and her.

    What do?

    Cliffs:
    - Met hottie through a friend
    - Created Attraction
    - Added me on FB and was clearly interested
    - Plans to met at club on New Years fell through
    - Got her to come to my place to stay after clubbing
    - Every possible thing went wrong (lost voice, housemate in the way, she was sick, room was a hot box)
    - Didn't even get a kiss
    - Slept in my bed, talked then took her home
    - Know I've dun goofed, she doesn't seem as interested
    - May still have a chance through her friends
    Last edited by redrex94; 01-04-2012 at 08:05 PM.

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    SamTang is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need some advice, girls gone cold

    Give it some time, and try not to come across too needy. The more you do, the more you are setting yourself up for the friend zone.

    Less is more my friend.

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    Default Re: Need some advice, girls gone cold

    Thanks for the reply mate, better off to not message her and leave her alone for a while?

    My guy friends are friends with her so there's no doubt i'll see her again eventually.

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    Default Re: Need some advice, girls gone cold

    I've noticed that all the post on this site all boils down to a lack of options. You missed ur chance but you're still good. Just occupy your time with another chick. If you don't get that chick you can get another chick. Don't fall into the needy trap because you'll definitely f- things up


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