There is this foreign girl who works in the same wider team as me at work, who is on a 6 month placement. So far, and as explained in my previous post (http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...he-leaves.html), there has been lots of flirting (loads of kino, teasing and laughing) but Iíve never hooked up with her. Now there is under 2 weeks left before she goes back to her home country and Iím starting to get that sinking feeling of regret.
In the past 3 weeks over Christmas I tried to arrange a date with her but as her friend was visiting, she invited me along with them both which didnít give me a chance to escalate, though it was a good evening. Also, I tried sorting something out just before New Years but as she was away for a few days it has had to wait.
Then, and what I thought was finally, last week I sent her a text on Tuesday evening asking if she wanted to go for a drink Wednesday after work. She didnít reply until Wednesday morning at work when she sent me an email saying she is going into town after work and yes we could go for a drink then.
Though, I think partly because I wasnít feeling like it that day (feeling very tired), partly because I was irritated with her for taking so long to get back to me and partly due to stupidity, I said no I would prefer the next day (Thursday) for a drink. She didnít reply, so on Thursday afternoon I sent her an email asking her if she was coming for a drink, but she said no as she was going to the gym straight after work (which she usually does).
I feel I canít keep asking her out as itís getting ridiculous and that if she doesnít propose something in the next couple of weeks before she goes, then that could be it.
Iím not quite sure what to do as Iím starting to feel major regret wishing I had gone for a drink with her that first evening. Iím not sure if feeling regret is a worse feeling than feeling no regret and getting rejectedÖ..
Perhaps I should give it one last go, or just feel regret and accept itís not going to/meant to happen?